"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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The Dreaded Lip Hair, Advice?

ChrisKevGuy

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Alright, this is the deal. What do you do when you want to tell a girl she needs to shave her lip hair or any part of her body as a matter of fact, without sounding too harsh or shallow?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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oakraiderz2

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Uhhh...you mean a mustache??
 

Phat

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1. Check her to see if shes a guy.
2. Just be like " so how long are u planning to grow that mustashe"
 

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oakraiderz2: Uhhh...you mean a mustache??

Not a mustahce... the littlest amount of fuzz on the lip, its just irritating to see. I know i can just go out and say stuff like "hey why dont you shave that"(gesture to her lip). or "planning on shaving that anytime soon?"(gesture). i was just thinking that sounded too shallow or harsh.

You know what? ***k it, i dont give a ***k what she thinks, im just going to tell her straight up. If she wants to be with me than she has to keep ***kin clean and keep up to my standards. I dont even know why i'm wasting my time asking you guys.
 

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couldnt have said it better myself.. my gf.. 100% italian.. had a slight mustasch... i told her i dont wanna see a hair on her body that isnt above her forehead...she complied
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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ChrisKevGuy: Did you tell her yet? If so, how did she react?

I always get grossed out when I see a woman with a 'mustashe' sorta thing.
 

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Maxim recomends getting her friend to tell her. Or comment on someone else's and how you don't like it.
 

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If shes someone you want to hang onto never tell her to shave her "mustache". It will grow like a mans, harder and thicker. I know its possible because my lunch lady has a mustache, NO JOKE!

Tell her to wax the hair "above her lips". NEVER call it a mustache to her face.

Hope this helps.
 

steroidsrule

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holy crap my lunch lady has a huge beard... i live in jersey and i go to watchung hills... tell me you dont go to the same school lol
 

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Just make a small joke about it if you aren't in an LTR. Women will be self-conscious and will usually take care of it promptly. If you ARE in an LTR, just tell her straight.

-Damian
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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buy her a freaking razor. would have made a damn fine stocking stuffer.

dude, read up a little on italy. italian is not an ethnic group. you don't find northern italian girls with facial hair. nope, you probably find that type in jersey. :rolleyes:
 

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whoever said shaving your hair make sit grown abck thicker and faster, thats a lie.
your hair jsut begins to grow thicker and faser through puberty because your maturing, not because u shave more often.

haha and that lil stash catches my eye on ever girl. it can make ahotass girl look almost hideous in my eyes. ew.
 
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