ChrisKevGuy
New Member
Alright, this is the deal. What do you do when you want to tell a girl she needs to shave her lip hair or any part of her body as a matter of fact, without sounding too harsh or shallow?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
The Dreaded Lip Hair, Advice?
- Thread starter ChrisKevGuy
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
oakraiderz2
Master Don Juan
Uhhh...you mean a mustache??
ChrisKevGuy
New Member
oakraiderz2: Uhhh...you mean a mustache??
Not a mustahce... the littlest amount of fuzz on the lip, its just irritating to see. I know i can just go out and say stuff like "hey why dont you shave that"(gesture to her lip). or "planning on shaving that anytime soon?"(gesture). i was just thinking that sounded too shallow or harsh.
You know what? ***k it, i dont give a ***k what she thinks, im just going to tell her straight up. If she wants to be with me than she has to keep ***kin clean and keep up to my standards. I dont even know why i'm wasting my time asking you guys.
Not a mustahce... the littlest amount of fuzz on the lip, its just irritating to see. I know i can just go out and say stuff like "hey why dont you shave that"(gesture to her lip). or "planning on shaving that anytime soon?"(gesture). i was just thinking that sounded too shallow or harsh.
You know what? ***k it, i dont give a ***k what she thinks, im just going to tell her straight up. If she wants to be with me than she has to keep ***kin clean and keep up to my standards. I dont even know why i'm wasting my time asking you guys.
steroidsrule
Don Juan
couldnt have said it better myself.. my gf.. 100% italian.. had a slight mustasch... i told her i dont wanna see a hair on her body that isnt above her forehead...she complied
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
DJ_Trainee_10
Don Juan
If shes someone you want to hang onto never tell her to shave her "mustache". It will grow like a mans, harder and thicker. I know its possible because my lunch lady has a mustache, NO JOKE!
Tell her to wax the hair "above her lips". NEVER call it a mustache to her face.
Hope this helps.
Tell her to wax the hair "above her lips". NEVER call it a mustache to her face.
Hope this helps.
steroidsrule
Don Juan
holy crap my lunch lady has a huge beard... i live in jersey and i go to watchung hills... tell me you dont go to the same school lol
Damian
Senior Don Juan
Just make a small joke about it if you aren't in an LTR. Women will be self-conscious and will usually take care of it promptly. If you ARE in an LTR, just tell her straight.
-Damian
-Damian
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
American_Psycho
Don Juan
Don't tell her to shave it unless you want stubble. Make sure she waxes it.
cheesecake
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buy her a freaking razor. would have made a damn fine stocking stuffer.
dude, read up a little on italy. italian is not an ethnic group. you don't find northern italian girls with facial hair. nope, you probably find that type in jersey.
dude, read up a little on italy. italian is not an ethnic group. you don't find northern italian girls with facial hair. nope, you probably find that type in jersey.
Patrick124
Master Don Juan
whoever said shaving your hair make sit grown abck thicker and faster, thats a lie.
your hair jsut begins to grow thicker and faser through puberty because your maturing, not because u shave more often.
haha and that lil stash catches my eye on ever girl. it can make ahotass girl look almost hideous in my eyes. ew.
your hair jsut begins to grow thicker and faser through puberty because your maturing, not because u shave more often.
haha and that lil stash catches my eye on ever girl. it can make ahotass girl look almost hideous in my eyes. ew.