ChrisKevGuy
New Member
Alright, this is the deal. What do you do when you want to tell a girl she needs to shave her lip hair or any part of her body as a matter of fact, without sounding too harsh or shallow?
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
The Dreaded Lip Hair, Advice?
- Thread starter ChrisKevGuy
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
oakraiderz2
Master Don Juan
Uhhh...you mean a mustache??
ChrisKevGuy
New Member
oakraiderz2: Uhhh...you mean a mustache??
Not a mustahce... the littlest amount of fuzz on the lip, its just irritating to see. I know i can just go out and say stuff like "hey why dont you shave that"(gesture to her lip). or "planning on shaving that anytime soon?"(gesture). i was just thinking that sounded too shallow or harsh.
You know what? ***k it, i dont give a ***k what she thinks, im just going to tell her straight up. If she wants to be with me than she has to keep ***kin clean and keep up to my standards. I dont even know why i'm wasting my time asking you guys.
Not a mustahce... the littlest amount of fuzz on the lip, its just irritating to see. I know i can just go out and say stuff like "hey why dont you shave that"(gesture to her lip). or "planning on shaving that anytime soon?"(gesture). i was just thinking that sounded too shallow or harsh.
You know what? ***k it, i dont give a ***k what she thinks, im just going to tell her straight up. If she wants to be with me than she has to keep ***kin clean and keep up to my standards. I dont even know why i'm wasting my time asking you guys.
steroidsrule
Don Juan
couldnt have said it better myself.. my gf.. 100% italian.. had a slight mustasch... i told her i dont wanna see a hair on her body that isnt above her forehead...she complied
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
DJ_Trainee_10
Don Juan
If shes someone you want to hang onto never tell her to shave her "mustache". It will grow like a mans, harder and thicker. I know its possible because my lunch lady has a mustache, NO JOKE!
Tell her to wax the hair "above her lips". NEVER call it a mustache to her face.
Hope this helps.
Tell her to wax the hair "above her lips". NEVER call it a mustache to her face.
Hope this helps.
steroidsrule
Don Juan
holy crap my lunch lady has a huge beard... i live in jersey and i go to watchung hills... tell me you dont go to the same school lol
Damian
Senior Don Juan
Just make a small joke about it if you aren't in an LTR. Women will be self-conscious and will usually take care of it promptly. If you ARE in an LTR, just tell her straight.
-Damian
-Damian
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
American_Psycho
Don Juan
Don't tell her to shave it unless you want stubble. Make sure she waxes it.
cheesecake
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buy her a freaking razor. would have made a damn fine stocking stuffer.
dude, read up a little on italy. italian is not an ethnic group. you don't find northern italian girls with facial hair. nope, you probably find that type in jersey.
dude, read up a little on italy. italian is not an ethnic group. you don't find northern italian girls with facial hair. nope, you probably find that type in jersey.
Patrick124
Master Don Juan
whoever said shaving your hair make sit grown abck thicker and faster, thats a lie.
your hair jsut begins to grow thicker and faser through puberty because your maturing, not because u shave more often.
haha and that lil stash catches my eye on ever girl. it can make ahotass girl look almost hideous in my eyes. ew.
your hair jsut begins to grow thicker and faser through puberty because your maturing, not because u shave more often.
haha and that lil stash catches my eye on ever girl. it can make ahotass girl look almost hideous in my eyes. ew.