ChrisKevGuy
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Alright, this is the deal. What do you do when you want to tell a girl she needs to shave her lip hair or any part of her body as a matter of fact, without sounding too harsh or shallow?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
The Dreaded Lip Hair, Advice?
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
oakraiderz2
Master Don Juan
Uhhh...you mean a mustache??
ChrisKevGuy
New Member
oakraiderz2: Uhhh...you mean a mustache??
Not a mustahce... the littlest amount of fuzz on the lip, its just irritating to see. I know i can just go out and say stuff like "hey why dont you shave that"(gesture to her lip). or "planning on shaving that anytime soon?"(gesture). i was just thinking that sounded too shallow or harsh.
You know what? ***k it, i dont give a ***k what she thinks, im just going to tell her straight up. If she wants to be with me than she has to keep ***kin clean and keep up to my standards. I dont even know why i'm wasting my time asking you guys.
Not a mustahce... the littlest amount of fuzz on the lip, its just irritating to see. I know i can just go out and say stuff like "hey why dont you shave that"(gesture to her lip). or "planning on shaving that anytime soon?"(gesture). i was just thinking that sounded too shallow or harsh.
You know what? ***k it, i dont give a ***k what she thinks, im just going to tell her straight up. If she wants to be with me than she has to keep ***kin clean and keep up to my standards. I dont even know why i'm wasting my time asking you guys.
steroidsrule
Don Juan
couldnt have said it better myself.. my gf.. 100% italian.. had a slight mustasch... i told her i dont wanna see a hair on her body that isnt above her forehead...she complied
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
DJ_Trainee_10
Don Juan
If shes someone you want to hang onto never tell her to shave her "mustache". It will grow like a mans, harder and thicker. I know its possible because my lunch lady has a mustache, NO JOKE!
Tell her to wax the hair "above her lips". NEVER call it a mustache to her face.
Hope this helps.
Tell her to wax the hair "above her lips". NEVER call it a mustache to her face.
Hope this helps.
steroidsrule
Don Juan
holy crap my lunch lady has a huge beard... i live in jersey and i go to watchung hills... tell me you dont go to the same school lol
Damian
Senior Don Juan
Just make a small joke about it if you aren't in an LTR. Women will be self-conscious and will usually take care of it promptly. If you ARE in an LTR, just tell her straight.
-Damian
-Damian
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
American_Psycho
Don Juan
Don't tell her to shave it unless you want stubble. Make sure she waxes it.
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buy her a freaking razor. would have made a damn fine stocking stuffer.
dude, read up a little on italy. italian is not an ethnic group. you don't find northern italian girls with facial hair. nope, you probably find that type in jersey.
dude, read up a little on italy. italian is not an ethnic group. you don't find northern italian girls with facial hair. nope, you probably find that type in jersey.
Patrick124
Master Don Juan
whoever said shaving your hair make sit grown abck thicker and faster, thats a lie.
your hair jsut begins to grow thicker and faser through puberty because your maturing, not because u shave more often.
haha and that lil stash catches my eye on ever girl. it can make ahotass girl look almost hideous in my eyes. ew.
your hair jsut begins to grow thicker and faser through puberty because your maturing, not because u shave more often.
haha and that lil stash catches my eye on ever girl. it can make ahotass girl look almost hideous in my eyes. ew.