"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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The delusions and attempts at hypergamy of middle aged women

BillyPilgrim

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Did you run out of meds again?

Seriously it’s hard to follow your…logic (might be the wrong word in this case).

Much of what you post is directed at the wrong people, speaks of either a reading comprehension issue, or a troubled mind.
What we have here, is a failure to commun'cate.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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bat soup

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This one is allegedly 40. That's a HARD 40, lol. What's funny is most of the members, are broke AF. 99% are not verified wealthy, and even most note their net worth is less than 300K, etc. (lowest option in the menu). This chic probably thinks she is going to pull millionaires. I had some 63 year old chic message me the other day (I'm a verified high net worth member on the site, early 40's) and told me a lot of people tell her she looks 35. SHE DOESN'T. To top it off she is broke AF. Delusional women dude, delusional...

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40? This one looks about 65.

The only thing that "Elite" dating sites guarantee is that 100% of the women there are gold diggers. Broke, desperate, expired gold-diggers in most cases.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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soulforge

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In OLD, on an elite dating site where most members are not elite but you can be verified as such (I did), it's amazing to see that I see the same chics on there every time I get back on there after a breakup. Not just inactive profiles, but I see them on there for years holding out.

I'm an 8, muscular/fit body, highly educated, financially very successful, and there are women in their 40's (I'm early 40's) who just keep holding out for their perfect guy...despite their already declined looks.

Then there is the other end of the spectrum...

I dated a girl who was 38, Stanford MBA, super hot....she wants to get married and have kids. She's now 40 and still dating. The wall is already there and rapidly hitting her harder....yet won't settle down. Dates guys who ALWAYS end up cheating on her, super rich guys who she thinks will commit to her, she thinks she can tame them.

Then there is another girl I went out with, 35, Chicago MBA (top 6), Ukranian. Never married, no kids, no one has proposed to her. After a couple months with her it was super obvious why. I had a series of other relationships after her, and each time I got back on the site, she was still on there. These women end up old and alone, posting pictures in skimpy dresses of their wrinkled skin trying to get guys.

There were also three verified high net worth women I dated on there, that never get off the site. Serial daters. The wall is hitting a couple of them hard right now.

Fellas, focus on your money. Time is on OUR side. These chics will come and go, even when you're in your 50's you'll be able to pull girls in their 20's. Don't get married, don't knock them up. They are bat **** crazy and not worth committing to. Attractive women get hit on all day and have endless options even when you think they are yours, they can passively shop for a better deal...but will ultimately end up alone in the end. The game is stacked against you if you commit to them.
I really needed to hear this... Bruv I spent the last 9 months dating a 24 year old Russian chick.. Getting into an LTR with her was a mistake, they are fukin crazy!!!

And YES they always keep there options open via Instagram etc... Absolutely do not commit, keep them in sex category only.

I'm 47 looking in brilliant shape and banging chicks in there mid 20s
 
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