“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Ricky

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I agree that people and women especially are so focused on the attention they get online even if it’s low quality attention, especially on the dating apps.

however, I know while you’re pointing was helpful for good reasons and what you’re saying is true if you focus on it too much it seems like you just get more of what you focus on

i’m doing my best to focus on fitness communities and reading and music. by doing so I attract women that are in those same areas too, and those tend to be the type of woman that I like the most.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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i’m doing my best to focus on fitness communities and reading and music. by doing so I attract women that are in those same areas too, and those tend to be the type of woman that I like the most.
See an interesting aspect is that in effect you are ostracizing attention hos and rewarding fitness girlies. Because you got tired of the nonsense. The cultural pendulum swings one person at a time, as long as people are self interested. Pursuit of happiness and all that :).
 

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Thats a good point. In fact alot of the fitness girls can be attention hoes too but alot of them i meet in gym and running groups dont seem to be as much into the attention. They tend to have not monetized

The ones that generally love group fitness seem to be my target
 
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