"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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The complete Instagram and Social Media guide to optimize your dating

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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EyeBRollin

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This is a pretty good guide in regards to photos and photo quality. I’m generally of the school of thought social media is a waste of time and only hurts a man’s chances. We are better off having no information about ourselves on social media than trying to put up favorable things (everything is subjective, thus in the eye of each viewer).

Can you speak more on how to tailor photos to an online dating profile?
 

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This is a pretty good guide in regards to photos and photo quality. I’m generally of the school of thought social media is a waste of time and only hurts a man’s chances. We are better off having no information about ourselves on social media than trying to put up favorable things (everything is subjective, thus in the eye of each viewer).

Can you speak more on how to tailor photos to an online dating profile?
I encourage people to do as much Daygame as possible and meet girls during the day. For me personally online favours women too much and women are too picky with it. But everything I say fits with the online profile, high quality pics of you doing interesting stuff....basically what the guide says a mix of you doing a variety of things
 

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The problem with Social Media is it optimizes Female Hypergamy and mate selection. It's a meat market for male celebrities. If you're not famous or super, duper socially proofed then it's not really a game worth playing.
Well that depends on the females you meet. If you're 28 who's traveled the world and done alot of things with your life and you meet an 18 year old then social media can be used to your advantage to convey value and build rapport that she won't be used to from the 18 year olds she's meeting.
 
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