You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
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Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
I encourage people to do as much Daygame as possible and meet girls during the day. For me personally online favours women too much and women are too picky with it. But everything I say fits with the online profile, high quality pics of you doing interesting stuff....basically what the guide says a mix of you doing a variety of things
Well that depends on the females you meet. If you're 28 who's traveled the world and done alot of things with your life and you meet an 18 year old then social media can be used to your advantage to convey value and build rapport that she won't be used to from the 18 year olds she's meeting.