"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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The Can I Kiss you Trick

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No just kiss her

The only was that would work is if youre a *****. you'd say Can I kiss you? then kiss her pull back and then start making out. That would work but the damn trick thing is kind of mean. It could build interest but...if youre going on a date with her who says you won't **** her the next date???:D
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Re: No just kiss her

Originally posted by ireallywantgirls
The only was that would work is if youre a *****. you'd say Can I kiss you? then kiss her pull back and then start making out. That would work but the damn trick thing is kind of mean. It could build interest but...if youre going on a date with her who says you won't **** her the next date???:D
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no, that is the pu.ssy way. don't ask girls if you can kiss them if you intend to kiss them at that moment. the whole point of asking them is to build suspense.
 
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yeah i guess it depends onw hat kind of guy you are. if youve got like, 8 girls your thinking of getting with it might be a good idea to hold off for awhile or something, ya know? its a good way to waste time while you think about which one you want as your one-itis or whatever haha
 
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Originally posted by shagnscoob
yeah i guess it depends onw hat kind of guy you are. if youve got like, 8 girls your thinking of getting with it might be a good idea to hold off for awhile or something, ya know? its a good way to waste time while you think about which one you want as your one-itis or whatever haha
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Heh, If I was considering 8 different girls I would want to kiss them all as soon as possible...That way I could factor kissing ability into my decision.
 
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