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The Biggest Obstacle To Getting Laid For Me

SargeMaximus

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Yeah I get it, comes to priorities. I've been similar to before. You clearly accept its not ideal for banging and may miss out on the odd lay, but your goal for solid future is more important than women at all costs. looking to make it work as best you can/optimize getting laid, without compromising the more important things. which you clearly can do as still getting laid aren't you?
Exactly. And yes I am still getting laid. I even met my ex in 2019 and had a 14 month long relationship despite my limitations

I also gotta point out that my brother who lives with me somehow does well with the hotter women so this whole narrative of being too poor to do well with women is bs
 
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Exactly. And yes I am still getting laid. I even met my ex in 2019 and had a 14 month long relationship despite my limitations

I also gotta point out that my brother who lives with me somehow does well with the hotter women so this whole narrative of being too poor to do well with women is bs
Or go over her place. Offering to bring food can help. “Let’s hang out at your place. I can pick up a pizza and bring it over.”

Can get the job done for $20.
 

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Exactly. And yes I am still getting laid. I even met my ex in 2019 and had a 14 month long relationship despite my limitations

I also gotta point out that my brother who lives with me somehow does well with the hotter women so this whole narrative of being too poor to do well with women is bs
My point is he needs to respect your need for companionship.

I think your asset allocation does not account for basic cashflow needs, which is a death sentence in business. Your monk mode living situation will begin to limit your perspective, especially given your personal goals. You are not being true to yourself.
 

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My point is he needs to respect your need for companionship.

I think your asset allocation does not account for basic cashflow needs, which is a death sentence in business. Your monk mode living situation will begin to limit your perspective, especially given your personal goals. You are not being true to yourself.
You don’t tell me what being true to myself is. Fvck off
 

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Ok. Then you know how hard it can be when people kick you while you’re down. I come here to get advice on my game not judgement or life advice from you guys. Suffice to say my life is more than what I’ve said on here so if everyone could stop assuming they know everything that would be great.
Ok. Then you know how hard it can be when people kick you while you’re down. I come here to get advice on my game not judgement or life advice from you guys. Suffice to say my life is more than what I’ve said on here so if everyone could stop assuming they know everything that would be great.

Not kicking you while down. It's nothing nothing personal man.

Some women prefer to go back to their place though. You should def frame your dates with pick them up them drive them back home imo.
 

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I also gotta point out that my brother who lives with me somehow does well with the hotter women so this whole narrative of being too poor to do well with women is bs
Yeah... Your brother... Who works at an arcade. Not running his own contracting business.

This is one thing I've noticed... It seems a lot of guys are combining what the lovers traits should be and what the providers traits should be, into one total package that must be attained for success. I think a lot of guys on here are getting females to seduce themselves by having the woman think that they are the better monkey branch. Fueling the hypergamy side. Not just tapping into raw desire fueling the dualistic sexual strategy side.
 

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Yeah... Your brother... Who works at an arcade. Not running his own contracting business.

This is one thing I've noticed... It seems a lot of guys are combining what the lovers traits should be and what the providers traits should be, into one total package that must be attained for success. I think a lot of guys on here are getting females to seduce themselves by having the woman think that they are the better monkey branch. Fueling the hypergamy side. Not just tapping into raw desire fueling the dualistic sexual strategy side.
Yeah so shouldn’t I be doing better than my brother since I make more and am not a minimum wage slave?
 

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I think he's accessing their biology, where as your financial success isn't enough to trigger their hypergamy.
 

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So recently it’s becoming more and more obvious that I’ve missed many opportunities to have sex because I can’t host. I live in a basement suite with my brother and logistics are a nightmare. I would say 75-90% of potential lays (where the girl has already agreed to have sex) fall through simply because I can’t host and she doesn’t have her own place.

Before people tell me to get my own place, I’m currently paying $375 for rent, internet and everything else included. It’s too good a deal to skip out on
Just do her in a forest against a tree bro :cool:
 

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Yeah so shouldn’t I be doing better than my brother since I make more and am not a minimum wage slave?

What does your brother look like compared to you and what are his social skills like?
 

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You don’t tell me what being true to myself is. Fvck off
Somebody is being a little sensitive.... you say you want something but it is not important enough to take the steps to get it... That's not being true to yourself.

Better invest some cash in some therapy
 
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