"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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The best way to ask a girl out?

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Plain and simple. I'm just trying to find out the right way to ask a girl out without sounding boring or using a basic question e.g. Would you like to hang out sometime? Or Let's hook up sometime! And no pick up lines, please!
This seems to be another barrier that I've had trouble breaking especially when the time comes to ask the girl out AND I KNOW IT'S THERE!.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Depends on how much she is interested and how much she is flirting.

I would stay away from asking a girl out to dinner right off.
You don't want to seem too interested but then again it depends on how much she is interested... For my first date with my current girlfriend I asked her out to "grab a bite to eat"... If she offers to pay for her meal let her. Although I always say, I'll pay for it, but only because I asked you out, :)

My 2 cents :p
 
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For a specific answer you have to give more info. However just use this:

"I'm thinking about going out for some {type of food} tonight. Interested?"
 
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