"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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The best way to ask a girl out?

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Plain and simple. I'm just trying to find out the right way to ask a girl out without sounding boring or using a basic question e.g. Would you like to hang out sometime? Or Let's hook up sometime! And no pick up lines, please!
This seems to be another barrier that I've had trouble breaking especially when the time comes to ask the girl out AND I KNOW IT'S THERE!.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Depends on how much she is interested and how much she is flirting.

I would stay away from asking a girl out to dinner right off.
You don't want to seem too interested but then again it depends on how much she is interested... For my first date with my current girlfriend I asked her out to "grab a bite to eat"... If she offers to pay for her meal let her. Although I always say, I'll pay for it, but only because I asked you out, :)

My 2 cents :p
 
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For a specific answer you have to give more info. However just use this:

"I'm thinking about going out for some {type of food} tonight. Interested?"
 
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