"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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The best way to ask a girl out?

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Plain and simple. I'm just trying to find out the right way to ask a girl out without sounding boring or using a basic question e.g. Would you like to hang out sometime? Or Let's hook up sometime! And no pick up lines, please!
This seems to be another barrier that I've had trouble breaking especially when the time comes to ask the girl out AND I KNOW IT'S THERE!.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Depends on how much she is interested and how much she is flirting.

I would stay away from asking a girl out to dinner right off.
You don't want to seem too interested but then again it depends on how much she is interested... For my first date with my current girlfriend I asked her out to "grab a bite to eat"... If she offers to pay for her meal let her. Although I always say, I'll pay for it, but only because I asked you out, :)

My 2 cents :p
 
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For a specific answer you have to give more info. However just use this:

"I'm thinking about going out for some {type of food} tonight. Interested?"
 
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