The attention provided by simping has brought down birth rates…

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Women don't want simps just for attention. Women eventually want to find a quality person. They just think getting a large amount of attention means greater chance she'll find someone.

By the way, she doesn't get flattered getting attention from unattractive simps. Put it this way. Let's say you have 100 women simping for you but all of them are incredibly obese and a 1 (out of 10). You wouldn't feel flattered either. That's how women see their simps. She won't care you're simping her if she thinks you're lowly and disgusting.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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This is what happens when you give women all the power
We've given all the wrong PEOPLE(Specifically: The Straight A kids in K-12, who excel at repeating everything they read in a textbook, never digging beneath the surface of anything)power they're unfit for. Seriously: Post-Eisenhower, note how many non-Ivy Leaguers have occupied The Oval Office
 

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There's a lot of cowards in politics and government, I agree. Compared to someone like Andrew Jackson and other hardasses of the past, they're all a bunch of p*ssies.
 

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Back in the days females had to leave the house just to get attention. Even during the MySpace days, females had to talk to guys online to get attention. But I think instagram was the beginning of global attention wh0ring without having to leave the house. That was the beginning of the end when it came to women playing the game of “giving and take” rather than just taking.

People forget that women were the original “seducers.” They still seduce men. But our society has set it up where the average hot chick thinks she can seduce millionaires and CEO’s.
 

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Gloria Steinem passed away last week. Give it a few, the nuclear family is already making a come back.
 

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All this simping discussion is really odd. :D :D

If A simps on B, that's their business. If A wants to be some pathetic simp, then let him.

The only reason you think it's your business is, you're also simping on her and you assume if she didn't have other simps, she'd date you. So it's your business because others simps are your competitors.

If you wanna be honest, that's the real reason simping bothers you.

The truth is, whether or not she has simps will not affect whether she'll date you. If she thinks you're unattractive, it doesn't matter if she has 0 simps or 200 simps. She's just not dating you, bro.

Like I've said all over this forum, the ratio of men to women in the world is 1 to 1. Not all women can have 500 guys exclusively chasing her. That's mathematically impossible. As long as monogamy exists in the world, there's literally someone for everyone.

Most women who have lots of followers don't care about her followers. She gets validation, that's it. She's not dating any of them anyway because she knows guys worth having aren't simping anyone.
 

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I straight up simped like three weeks ago. My friend went to school with a girl & in a group chat with her, and we ran into her at a concert. They don’t know each other but they follow each other and this girl was posing for a pic. She was a high 8 maybe a 9. Blonde and went to a high profile SEC school. Maybe 22 years old no older. So when I thought her boyfriend left I asked her if she was an influencer. She was like no but my boyfriend is probably recording this laughing. It was such a weird response and situation. But I wanted to take a swing at it and look dumb in front of my friends.
 

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As a guy who just had a kid, this is completely wrong. Do you have any fvcking children, OP? Unless you need your kids working your subsistence farm, children are a net negative for economics and productivity. They're expensive and drain away all of your time and energy. Birth rates are down because having a child in a modern economy is basically volunteering to cut off your hands.
It is true that children are a big cost. It's only after I have succeeded in accumulating & building generational wealth do I feel like I could afford children (this cost includes the contingency that my mating partner could demand separate housing, which is something the father would need to provide since his child would be there).
 

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when did your average man have the power?

Now.. in the middle east :) Now.. in the Amish communities... Now in the Arab communities in France, etc.. now in the majority of hispanic communities in the USA...

But if you want to look in the past, Pre 1960 USA....
 

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