"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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The Art of Appologizing...What Do I Do?

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Ian19

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I f-ed up and said some things to this girl I'm seeing thinking that I was 100% right only to find out I was 100% wrong. I really need to appologize and try to salvage things. What should I do? I've never had to appologize like this before.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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italostud

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Telling us what happened exactly will get you a better answer.
 
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Yuriy777

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If you must apologize (it was something really! bad)
Then just remember not to over do it otherwise you give her too much control and come off looking weak (in a way).

A tip if you're apologizing use the word I more than you
Long explanation, but it does help usually help get the point across better.

Also remember if she won't accept you're apology do not linger and move on.
The last thing you prob need is drama and going back to AFC ways of getting or keeping a girl.
Remember if after you gave her a sincere apology, if she can't accept it that's her problem and move on.

Good Luck to you bro
 
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dude your the one with the indian chick if i m not mistaken ..be cool and just say it
 
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The "trick" here is to know the right way to apologize. So the thing to recognize is this,

YOU made the mistake in confiding in a false truth. You felt that what you were saying was true and that YOU were right about it. That's part one of the apology, so you need to say you were wrong about that (cuz you were, right? or else why apologize.)

next is to say you're sorry for not knowing better OR for doubting her (whichever it was) OR for whatever it is you did to apologize for.

At the point where you're done saying everything you had to, be sure to LISTEN to what she has to say. Accept it and move on.

Bad thing is that you can't cover up anything by making it sound like you are excused as that doesn't work. At least for me it don't.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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