The Art of Appologizing...What Do I Do?

[Ian19]

I f-ed up and said some things to this girl I'm seeing thinking that I was 100% right only to find out I was 100% wrong. I really need to appologize and try to salvage things. What should I do? I've never had to appologize like this before.

 

[italostud]

Telling us what happened exactly will get you a better answer.

 

[Yuriy777]

If you must apologize (it was something really! bad)
Then just remember not to over do it otherwise you give her too much control and come off looking weak (in a way).

A tip if you're apologizing use the word I more than you
Long explanation, but it does help usually help get the point across better.

Also remember if she won't accept you're apology do not linger and move on.
The last thing you prob need is drama and going back to AFC ways of getting or keeping a girl.
Remember if after you gave her a sincere apology, if she can't accept it that's her problem and move on.

Good Luck to you bro

 

[KnightRyder]

dude your the one with the indian chick if i m not mistaken ..be cool and just say it

 

[DJHoolahoop]

The "trick" here is to know the right way to apologize. So the thing to recognize is this,

YOU made the mistake in confiding in a false truth. You felt that what you were saying was true and that YOU were right about it. That's part one of the apology, so you need to say you were wrong about that (cuz you were, right? or else why apologize.)

next is to say you're sorry for not knowing better OR for doubting her (whichever it was) OR for whatever it is you did to apologize for.

At the point where you're done saying everything you had to, be sure to LISTEN to what she has to say. Accept it and move on.

Bad thing is that you can't cover up anything by making it sound like you are excused as that doesn't work. At least for me it don't.