"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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The Apprentice 10: Would you be attracted to any of these girls?

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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the black girl is the cutest one there and i probalby wouldn't even date her to be honest, but she's not bad looking. i take that back, black girl can get it. not bad looking at all
 

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backbreaker said:
the black girl is the cutest one there and i probalby wouldn't even date her to be honest, but she's not bad looking. i take that back, black girl can get it. not bad looking at all
Forget about looks for a sec, look at the way they act and talk.

Any attraction that their looks kindled, fizzled by the way they carry themselves.

For lack of a better term, they are b1tchy
 

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Cr1msonKing said:
These are career women who are on a reality show to win a coveted spot. I'd be a little on edge in front of Trump trying to save my ass.

They sure as hell aren't on that show so when Trader watches it online, he thinks to himself, wow she carries herself like a nice women that would be a good mother for my children.
I know girls who couldn't act that way in front of Trump even if they tried
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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