"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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The Apprentice 10: Would you be attracted to any of these girls?

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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the black girl is the cutest one there and i probalby wouldn't even date her to be honest, but she's not bad looking. i take that back, black girl can get it. not bad looking at all
 

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backbreaker said:
the black girl is the cutest one there and i probalby wouldn't even date her to be honest, but she's not bad looking. i take that back, black girl can get it. not bad looking at all
Forget about looks for a sec, look at the way they act and talk.

Any attraction that their looks kindled, fizzled by the way they carry themselves.

For lack of a better term, they are b1tchy
 

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Cr1msonKing said:
These are career women who are on a reality show to win a coveted spot. I'd be a little on edge in front of Trump trying to save my ass.

They sure as hell aren't on that show so when Trader watches it online, he thinks to himself, wow she carries herself like a nice women that would be a good mother for my children.
I know girls who couldn't act that way in front of Trump even if they tried
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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