"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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The Apprentice 10: Would you be attracted to any of these girls?

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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the black girl is the cutest one there and i probalby wouldn't even date her to be honest, but she's not bad looking. i take that back, black girl can get it. not bad looking at all
 

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backbreaker said:
the black girl is the cutest one there and i probalby wouldn't even date her to be honest, but she's not bad looking. i take that back, black girl can get it. not bad looking at all
Forget about looks for a sec, look at the way they act and talk.

Any attraction that their looks kindled, fizzled by the way they carry themselves.

For lack of a better term, they are b1tchy
 

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Cr1msonKing said:
These are career women who are on a reality show to win a coveted spot. I'd be a little on edge in front of Trump trying to save my ass.

They sure as hell aren't on that show so when Trader watches it online, he thinks to himself, wow she carries herself like a nice women that would be a good mother for my children.
I know girls who couldn't act that way in front of Trump even if they tried
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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