"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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The Apprentice 10: Would you be attracted to any of these girls?

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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the black girl is the cutest one there and i probalby wouldn't even date her to be honest, but she's not bad looking. i take that back, black girl can get it. not bad looking at all
 

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backbreaker said:
the black girl is the cutest one there and i probalby wouldn't even date her to be honest, but she's not bad looking. i take that back, black girl can get it. not bad looking at all
Forget about looks for a sec, look at the way they act and talk.

Any attraction that their looks kindled, fizzled by the way they carry themselves.

For lack of a better term, they are b1tchy
 

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Cr1msonKing said:
These are career women who are on a reality show to win a coveted spot. I'd be a little on edge in front of Trump trying to save my ass.

They sure as hell aren't on that show so when Trader watches it online, he thinks to himself, wow she carries herself like a nice women that would be a good mother for my children.
I know girls who couldn't act that way in front of Trump even if they tried
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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