"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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ANIRBAN

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Hey,

I am dating an Indonesian lady at the moment..used my C+F attitude and got her suck my **** and cummed over her breast. tickkled her ***** and made her *** as well..BUT well she is virgin thats why I am taking it easy for the moment until she boils to get fukked..my problem or should I say blessing.. :)

She always inists to share the bill..and gets angry if I pay for it...it goes like this..if I pay for lunch..she will surely pay for dinner..if I buy her a drink she will surely buy me the next drink..is it her mental problem or she does not want to be bought...she is also moody and we had fights over this pay thing..

well I appreciate her generosity..but not expect to open up a fight when the bill arrives..normaly the ladies do it in the first few dates..in order to avoid being oblidged..but why she is doing it when we are physical and having fun..she gets depressed too if I pay three times consecutively... is it a cultural thing?? or some mental issue..shoud I talk about it with her..or just relax when the bill comes..ha ha

Any Psyco analyst out there ???
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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You're right. It's not a problem, it's a blessing. Not to say you should sit back and watch her pay the bill but she is showing you she is an independant woman who doesn't want to take advantage of you. Relax and just make sure she doesn't spend more than you cuz that would kinda suck..

I gotta find me an indonesian chick! :D
 

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Why are you argueing about that with her? That's awesome!
BTW, what's her #?

:D
 

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what the hell is your problem, seriously. shes trying to pay for stuff, is she poor, will her paying put her on the street. why should you have to pay anyway. oh yeah your a man, a man always pays, bull**** he does. i cant belive you would fight over this. the only reason it should bother you is if youre insecure and you cant take her paying because you think it makes you look like you CANT pay. this is just stupid
 

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If you don't like it, send her my way, I'll enjoy it :D.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I think most Indonesian girls are MUSLIM. that is a big issue. when a chick is a muslim, she is not supposed to have sex before marriage, especially is she lived in indonesia before and still maintain "relationships" with her family. i dated morrocon girls, and are fanatical about this. you may kiss, you may *** over her, you may carress her ass in front of everybody, some even suggested i fvck her into her assh0le, but NEVER EVER would they accept have sex.

trust me, if she is really religious, you will spend months and years with her, and you will only get the kiss. UNLESS you become muslim.
 

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Thanks for all ur inputs!!

She is a Catholic !! Thank God :)

OKay guys I will stop complaining..I am lucky to have her...
 
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Originally posted by ANIRBAN
Hey,

I am dating an Indonesian lady at the moment..used my C+F attitude and got her suck my **** and cummed over her breast. tickkled her ***** and made her *** as well..BUT well she is virgin thats why I am taking it easy for the moment until she boils to get fukked... Any Psycho analyst out there ???
Hahahahaha --- A virgin Catholic HOR!!!!!! Now I heard of everything!!! You bastards kill me! Is that the same as a virgin HOMO child rapist priest!!!!!

Don't believe what women say - look at what they do!!!!!!!!!!

She is only a virgin to you - not to her other pimps!
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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