"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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The 50-50 Girl !!!

ANIRBAN

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Hey,

I am dating an Indonesian lady at the moment..used my C+F attitude and got her suck my **** and cummed over her breast. tickkled her ***** and made her *** as well..BUT well she is virgin thats why I am taking it easy for the moment until she boils to get fukked..my problem or should I say blessing.. :)

She always inists to share the bill..and gets angry if I pay for it...it goes like this..if I pay for lunch..she will surely pay for dinner..if I buy her a drink she will surely buy me the next drink..is it her mental problem or she does not want to be bought...she is also moody and we had fights over this pay thing..

well I appreciate her generosity..but not expect to open up a fight when the bill arrives..normaly the ladies do it in the first few dates..in order to avoid being oblidged..but why she is doing it when we are physical and having fun..she gets depressed too if I pay three times consecutively... is it a cultural thing?? or some mental issue..shoud I talk about it with her..or just relax when the bill comes..ha ha

Any Psyco analyst out there ???
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Caveman

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You're right. It's not a problem, it's a blessing. Not to say you should sit back and watch her pay the bill but she is showing you she is an independant woman who doesn't want to take advantage of you. Relax and just make sure she doesn't spend more than you cuz that would kinda suck..

I gotta find me an indonesian chick! :D
 

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Why are you argueing about that with her? That's awesome!
BTW, what's her #?

:D
 

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what the hell is your problem, seriously. shes trying to pay for stuff, is she poor, will her paying put her on the street. why should you have to pay anyway. oh yeah your a man, a man always pays, bull**** he does. i cant belive you would fight over this. the only reason it should bother you is if youre insecure and you cant take her paying because you think it makes you look like you CANT pay. this is just stupid
 

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If you don't like it, send her my way, I'll enjoy it :D.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I think most Indonesian girls are MUSLIM. that is a big issue. when a chick is a muslim, she is not supposed to have sex before marriage, especially is she lived in indonesia before and still maintain "relationships" with her family. i dated morrocon girls, and are fanatical about this. you may kiss, you may *** over her, you may carress her ass in front of everybody, some even suggested i fvck her into her assh0le, but NEVER EVER would they accept have sex.

trust me, if she is really religious, you will spend months and years with her, and you will only get the kiss. UNLESS you become muslim.
 

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Thanks for all ur inputs!!

She is a Catholic !! Thank God :)

OKay guys I will stop complaining..I am lucky to have her...
 
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Originally posted by ANIRBAN
Hey,

I am dating an Indonesian lady at the moment..used my C+F attitude and got her suck my **** and cummed over her breast. tickkled her ***** and made her *** as well..BUT well she is virgin thats why I am taking it easy for the moment until she boils to get fukked... Any Psycho analyst out there ???
Hahahahaha --- A virgin Catholic HOR!!!!!! Now I heard of everything!!! You bastards kill me! Is that the same as a virgin HOMO child rapist priest!!!!!

Don't believe what women say - look at what they do!!!!!!!!!!

She is only a virgin to you - not to her other pimps!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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