"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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The 5 guy Theory (which one are you on her list?)

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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dementia

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I know im a 3 with one particular girl.. although i could also have periods as a 5.. as we do hang out alot too, im like the main guy.. but i know shes alwayysss on the look out... i guess i havent been able to be topped yet by the fullblown a-hole 5 or a someone who knows her more 4... ;)
 

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at the end of the day just remember this.....(for more women than a few) unless she has a ring on her finger and it's obvious she's made a full commitment to you...there's always another guy...

i'll be a 5 until i find the mutual woman for me...being a 1 (unless your not attracted) is dumb and pathetic...nowadays women don't even hang around guys or associate with guys they dont like...FLAT OUT
 

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reiterate: this post is for single women, not women in relationships

- comic_relief
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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loveshogun

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Which guy am I?

The one in her ass.

Ha!

Snatchin' ya people up since 1985, yo.
 

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And a husband is a woman's "Number One Guy."

A single, metro-type #1 is likely a gay guy trying to turn her into a fag hag for the occasional date adz-rape.

EDIT: Come to think of it, the list really should put the undercover lover as #4, since he just moved one step from being the new guy, and should put the dreamy guy as #5, since he's the complete opposite of the husband (permanent chump).
 

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Mr. White said:
And a husband is a woman's "Number One Guy."

A single, metro-type #1 is likely a gay guy trying to turn her into a fag hag for the occasional date adz-rape.

EDIT: Come to think of it, the list really should put the undercover lover as #4, since he just moved one step from being the new guy, and should put the dreamy guy as #5, since he's the complete opposite of the husband (permanent chump).

lol so u say...read again
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Excellently written and matches my experience pretty accurately. I'm not sure about #2, this one just seems like a limbo between #3 and any of the others. But aside from that, spot on. This can be used to explain flakes to a lot of newbies.

For those doubting the #5, there are plenty of girls who do this. And this includes girls in relationships with someone else. But if it doesn't end all of a sudden, you will most likely become a #4. All girls fall in love with the bad boy in the end.
 

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Well, this seems sad on a certain level for both the girl and the guys involved. None of the guys her be her all in all. She needs 5 guys to meet her needs, lol.
 

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jafyk said:
Well, this seems sad on a certain level for both the girl and the guys involved. None of the guys her be her all in all. She needs 5 guys to meet her needs, lol.

nature only want reproduction.. sadness is inherent in the humans struggle.. and there is no such thing as "all in all" she gets different things from different guys and pays them all with sex.. sex is like money it get goods and service s from men for the woman.. problem is men dont have an equivelant resource they can trade like sex..lol mens sex has a low value cause there are too many men and its to easy for women to get sex from all those men so she places little to no value on it..
 
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