Badmannaz
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and syzzlin i must object to some extent...I've b4Nged 3 chicks in a row Who Either had Other men....and or didnt even like me...they just like my confidence and my body...
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
The 5 guy Theory (which one are you on her list?)
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
dementia
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I know im a 3 with one particular girl.. although i could also have periods as a 5.. as we do hang out alot too, im like the main guy.. but i know shes alwayysss on the look out... i guess i havent been able to be topped yet by the fullblown a-hole 5 or a someone who knows her more 4... 
Badmannaz
Master Don Juan
at the end of the day just remember this.....(for more women than a few) unless she has a ring on her finger and it's obvious she's made a full commitment to you...there's always another guy...
i'll be a 5 until i find the mutual woman for me...being a 1 (unless your not attracted) is dumb and pathetic...nowadays women don't even hang around guys or associate with guys they dont like...FLAT OUT
i'll be a 5 until i find the mutual woman for me...being a 1 (unless your not attracted) is dumb and pathetic...nowadays women don't even hang around guys or associate with guys they dont like...FLAT OUT
comic_relief
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reiterate: this post is for single women, not women in relationships
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Good Stuff.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Badmannaz
Master Don Juan
yea man i wish somebody would have told me...i had to learn the hard way...o well.. lol...like i said chicks made this up not me...
loveshogun
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Which guy am I?
The one in her ass.
Ha!
Snatchin' ya people up since 1985, yo.
The one in her ass.
Ha!
Snatchin' ya people up since 1985, yo.
DonGorgon
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i am a 4.5 with 1 girl ..a 4 with 2 others and a 3 with 1000000 lalal i hate being 3
And a husband is a woman's "Number One Guy."
A single, metro-type #1 is likely a gay guy trying to turn her into a fag hag for the occasional date adz-rape.
EDIT: Come to think of it, the list really should put the undercover lover as #4, since he just moved one step from being the new guy, and should put the dreamy guy as #5, since he's the complete opposite of the husband (permanent chump).
A single, metro-type #1 is likely a gay guy trying to turn her into a fag hag for the occasional date adz-rape.
EDIT: Come to think of it, the list really should put the undercover lover as #4, since he just moved one step from being the new guy, and should put the dreamy guy as #5, since he's the complete opposite of the husband (permanent chump).
Badmannaz
Master Don Juan
Mr. White said:
lol so u say...read again
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Excellently written and matches my experience pretty accurately. I'm not sure about #2, this one just seems like a limbo between #3 and any of the others. But aside from that, spot on. This can be used to explain flakes to a lot of newbies.
For those doubting the #5, there are plenty of girls who do this. And this includes girls in relationships with someone else. But if it doesn't end all of a sudden, you will most likely become a #4. All girls fall in love with the bad boy in the end.
For those doubting the #5, there are plenty of girls who do this. And this includes girls in relationships with someone else. But if it doesn't end all of a sudden, you will most likely become a #4. All girls fall in love with the bad boy in the end.
jafyk
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Well, this seems sad on a certain level for both the girl and the guys involved. None of the guys her be her all in all. She needs 5 guys to meet her needs, lol.
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jafyk said:
nature only want reproduction.. sadness is inherent in the humans struggle.. and there is no such thing as "all in all" she gets different things from different guys and pays them all with sex.. sex is like money it get goods and service s from men for the woman.. problem is men dont have an equivelant resource they can trade like sex..lol mens sex has a low value cause there are too many men and its to easy for women to get sex from all those men so she places little to no value on it..