wifehunter
Master Don Juan
When the moment comes things feel a bit off, and the testing begins.
So glad I know what to do.
So glad I know what to do.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
that moment you back off...
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Ahh damn lol... Mankind messed up decades ago trying to figure out what they think and what they want lol.
My technique involves; being quiet and distant until she complains, and after finding out what's the problem, I'll do the opposite of what she complained.
Works for me in the end.
Edit: But I always listen to their complaints and never argue back, I'd just nod my head and remain quiet, sometimes interject with running questions to assist her.
Works for me in the end.
Edit: But I always listen to their complaints and never argue back, I'd just nod my head and remain quiet, sometimes interject with running questions to assist her.
wifehunter
Master Don Juan
I think I just passed a jealousy test...she did the classy thing by not rubbing some guy in my face. Just one of her many orbiters, probably.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
wifehunter
Master Don Juan
Sometimes I wish my ass would dissappear, especially after eating bean burritos!
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mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Not necessarily. If she was wasting your time for Attention, you'll take that away. With guys they have high IL , they usually don't receive alot of Attention in return.
So if your on the fence you can force it where she have to spend more quality time to get her attention.
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Skyline
Master Don Juan
When it comes to a girl that you aren't exclusive with, by the time you back off it's usually already too late.
If you're talking to a girl, and you think about backing off, that's the best time. Don't dwell on that thought...
If you're talking to a girl, and you think about backing off, that's the best time. Don't dwell on that thought...