wifehunter
Master Don Juan
When the moment comes things feel a bit off, and the testing begins.
So glad I know what to do.
So glad I know what to do.
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
that moment you back off...
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Ahh damn lol... Mankind messed up decades ago trying to figure out what they think and what they want lol.
My technique involves; being quiet and distant until she complains, and after finding out what's the problem, I'll do the opposite of what she complained.
Works for me in the end.
Edit: But I always listen to their complaints and never argue back, I'd just nod my head and remain quiet, sometimes interject with running questions to assist her.
Works for me in the end.
Edit: But I always listen to their complaints and never argue back, I'd just nod my head and remain quiet, sometimes interject with running questions to assist her.
wifehunter
Master Don Juan
I think I just passed a jealousy test...she did the classy thing by not rubbing some guy in my face. Just one of her many orbiters, probably.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
wifehunter
Master Don Juan
Sometimes I wish my ass would dissappear, especially after eating bean burritos!
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mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Not necessarily. If she was wasting your time for Attention, you'll take that away. With guys they have high IL , they usually don't receive alot of Attention in return.
So if your on the fence you can force it where she have to spend more quality time to get her attention.
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Skyline
Master Don Juan
When it comes to a girl that you aren't exclusive with, by the time you back off it's usually already too late.
If you're talking to a girl, and you think about backing off, that's the best time. Don't dwell on that thought...
If you're talking to a girl, and you think about backing off, that's the best time. Don't dwell on that thought...