Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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that moment you back off...

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When the moment comes things feel a bit off, and the testing begins.

So glad I know what to do.:cool:
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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My technique involves; being quiet and distant until she complains, and after finding out what's the problem, I'll do the opposite of what she complained.

Works for me in the end.

Edit: But I always listen to their complaints and never argue back, I'd just nod my head and remain quiet, sometimes interject with running questions to assist her.
 

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Do the opposite of what she expects, you'll do just fine haha
I think I just passed a jealousy test...she did the classy thing by not rubbing some guy in my face. Just one of her many orbiters, probably.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Backing off only works if their IL is high to begin with..if it's not she will be happy that your ass disappeared.
Sometimes I wish my ass would dissappear, especially after eating bean burritos!
 
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Backing off only works if their IL is high to begin with..if it's not she will be happy that your ass disappeared.
Not necessarily. If she was wasting your time for Attention, you'll take that away. With guys they have high IL , they usually don't receive alot of Attention in return.

So if your on the fence you can force it where she have to spend more quality time to get her attention.
 
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When it comes to a girl that you aren't exclusive with, by the time you back off it's usually already too late.

If you're talking to a girl, and you think about backing off, that's the best time. Don't dwell on that thought...
 
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