wifehunter
Master Don Juan
When the moment comes things feel a bit off, and the testing begins.
So glad I know what to do.
So glad I know what to do.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
that moment you back off...
- Thread starter wifehunter
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Ahh damn lol... Mankind messed up decades ago trying to figure out what they think and what they want lol.
My technique involves; being quiet and distant until she complains, and after finding out what's the problem, I'll do the opposite of what she complained.
Works for me in the end.
Edit: But I always listen to their complaints and never argue back, I'd just nod my head and remain quiet, sometimes interject with running questions to assist her.
Works for me in the end.
Edit: But I always listen to their complaints and never argue back, I'd just nod my head and remain quiet, sometimes interject with running questions to assist her.
wifehunter
Master Don Juan
I think I just passed a jealousy test...she did the classy thing by not rubbing some guy in my face. Just one of her many orbiters, probably.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
wifehunter
Master Don Juan
Sometimes I wish my ass would dissappear, especially after eating bean burritos!
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mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Not necessarily. If she was wasting your time for Attention, you'll take that away. With guys they have high IL , they usually don't receive alot of Attention in return.
So if your on the fence you can force it where she have to spend more quality time to get her attention.
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Skyline
Master Don Juan
When it comes to a girl that you aren't exclusive with, by the time you back off it's usually already too late.
If you're talking to a girl, and you think about backing off, that's the best time. Don't dwell on that thought...
If you're talking to a girl, and you think about backing off, that's the best time. Don't dwell on that thought...