"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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That Girl With A 1,000 C0ck Stare

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Wrong. Men and women across the board are having less sex.




Think about it: most women in the western world are both quite fat yet have sky high and skyrocketing expectations: it's impossible that that combination could lead to more sex.
I’ve heard this but I just don’t see it to be true. Like there are guys I know that are virgins but I’ve never seen a chick who is, unless she was extremely sheltered/religious growing up. And even then, only if they’re ugly. Every guy I know who’s aware of the game will say how there’s no chick who’s a virgin nowadays past high school, but yet the CDC says that 60% of high school kids are virgins. That yet doesn’t make sense. Unless it’s literally all the chicks going after the same few guys. But **** bro, this **** just doesn’t add up.
 

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If this were true, then why are STDs at an all time high (aside form HIV/AIDS)?
Got any stats to this, as in - which socioeconomic groups, genders, and especially or at least in which regions? Any kind of article or study? Otherwise it's understandably very hard for me to discuss it.
 

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Come on dude. You know how I do. Sources below. All this month too.




 

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Come on dude. You know how I do. Sources below. All this month too.




Most of these causes are suggested by the articles themselves but I complemented with my own searching:

1 - Tradcuck regions that shame sexuality and are hostile to factual sex education and harm reduction policies. Tradcuck policies increase negative sexual health outcomes, such as STDs and poor teen births, in the regions they are enacted.
2 - Cuts to STD detection and treatment programs. See "tradcuck policy", but could also be due to "generalized" austerity.
3 - Poverty. Poverty itself is effectively an inheritable disease, it changes your epigenome. It also might hinder access to said STD detection and treatment.
4 - Increased drug use. Drug users get more STDs on average, bringing the count up.
5 - Decreasing/decreased condom use, such as among gays.
6 - More STDs are getting reported and screened rather than remaining unknown of. This contradicts #2, you would assume they can't both be driving reported rates when they are opposites, fact checking would have to be done.
7 - Increasing antibiotic-resistant strains.
 
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Most of these causes are suggested by the articles themselves but I complemented with my own searching:

1 - Tradcuck regions that shame sexuality and are hostile to factual sex education and harm reduction policies. Tradcuck policies increase negative sexual health outcomes, such as STDs and poor teen births, in the regions they are enacted.
2 - Cuts to STD detection and treatment programs. See "tradcuck policy", but could also be due to "generalized" austerity.
3 - Poverty. Poverty itself is effectively an inheritable disease, it changes your epigenome. It also might hinder access to said STD detection and treatment.
4 - Increased drug use. Drug users get more STDs on average, bringing the count up.
5 - Decreasing/decreased condom use, such as among gays.
6 - More STDs are getting reported and screened rather than remaining unknown of. This contradicts #2, you would assume they can't both be driving reported rates when they are opposites, fact checking would have to be done.
7 - Increasing antibiotic-resistant strains.
Perhaps on some, but incurable STDs are on the rise. Is it really worth the game with such dangerous consequences right now?
 

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"They have an itch that no amount of dics can scratch" lol.

These women do in fact exist.
 

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I’ve heard this but I just don’t see it to be true. Like there are guys I know that are virgins but I’ve never seen a chick who is, unless she was extremely sheltered/religious growing up. And even then, only if they’re ugly. Every guy I know who’s aware of the game will say how there’s no chick who’s a virgin nowadays past high school, but yet the CDC says that 60% of high school kids are virgins. That yet doesn’t make sense. Unless it’s literally all the chicks going after the same few guys. But **** bro, this **** just doesn’t add up.
80/20 rule
 

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For those of you who don't know, this is what it looks like:

 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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In my experience, it often even looks more devilish than the above. Sometimes girls can have the harder eyes, but not have so many sex partners; watch the facial expressions also to see if they match with her eyes.
 

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Oh, it's easy to tell. I figured this one out on my own when I was a teenager. That look in the eyes is unmistakable.
 

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I'm awaiting photo evidence of this purported phenomenon.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I'm sorry, I can't resist calling BS.

Let's play a game. Take a long-term celebrity who probably has over 100,000 paparazzi photos taken of her. We'll choose one from relatively early, then pick a somewhat recent one. I'm sure there's 0% chance you can cherry-pick to show a "before" photo that shows energy and vitality, and an "after" photo that demonstrates flatlined energy. Nah, never.

But hey, let's say you can demonstrate that all the 2007 photos are pure happy-happy and all the 2019 photos are the embodiment of a totally hollowed-out soul. I'm sure that the c*ck-carousel is entirely to blame, right? Couldn't possibly have anything to do with 12 relentless years of searing celebrity spotlight, surely not.

There's an old saying: "I'd rather be rich than famous". Never truer than today. I don't know how a modern top-tier celebrity keeps their sanity.
 

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I'm sorry, I can't resist calling BS.

Let's play a game. Take a long-term celebrity who probably has over 100,000 paparazzi photos taken of her. We'll choose one from relatively early, then pick a somewhat recent one. I'm sure there's 0% chance you can cherry-pick to show a "before" photo that shows energy and vitality, and an "after" photo that demonstrates flatlined energy. Nah, never.

But hey, let's say you can demonstrate that all the 2007 photos are pure happy-happy and all the 2019 photos are the embodiment of a totally hollowed-out soul. I'm sure that the c*ck-carousel is entirely to blame, right? Couldn't possibly have anything to do with 12 relentless years of searing celebrity spotlight, surely not.

There's an old saying: "I'd rather be rich than famous". Never truer than today. I don't know how a modern top-tier celebrity keeps their sanity.
I'm calling bs on you not seeing it with your own two eyes in real life. How blind and ignorant are some of you guys?
 

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Clearly I said examples. I did not say proof. I'm not proving the obvious. I refuse to argue the sky is blue.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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