Bonafide
Senior Don Juan
is that real? how in the hell did he transform like that, that is crazy... I was just looking through a thread and a guy posted that and I watched the video
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Yes, it's real.Bonafide said:is that real? how in the hell did he transform like that, that is crazy... I was just looking through a thread and a guy posted that and I watched the video
Bonafide said:is that real? how in the hell did he transform like that, that is crazy... I was just looking through a thread and a guy posted that and I watched the video
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
hahahaKarmaSutra said:Hey Dan!
Haven't seen you online for awhile. How are you Brother?
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Why would you date a woman in her 30's for the last year. Your young I believe your 22 or something like that. Any guy who dates a woman older than him is short changing himself. older woman should never be taken serious. Use them for a **** and a nut. The woman in your age range are much hotter, go after them.Metaphysical said:http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fS4r2sOAXXo
Here's an update for you guys on the video. I added some more recent pics. As well as started my own site with an e-book detailing how I did it.
I've been spending the past 3 months typing away like a maniac. It's almost 120 pages. In terms of game, I've been dating a woman in her 30s for the past year and things have been going great with her. She treats me like a KING.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
found it out... It's: Jem - 24scribblec said:whats the name of the song in the new video?
i changed the song and re-edited the video, it's uploaded on my website in my linkDon_Phong said:found it out... It's: Jem - 24
That post was full of hate. I think someones jealous.L777 said:This video always makes me laugh, as does you guys' responses. Yes, kudos to the guy for changing...but PLEASE get off his d.ick! His acne cleared up and he's put on some muscle. I started off with almost the exact same size body as this guy and I now have about 20lb more muscle than the current "DJ Dan"...am I gonna make a video...hell no!! The picture of him fully clothed in the doggystyle position with that minger (thats an UG to you Americans) and the skinny-boy-in-a-leather-jacket-with-long-hair pose are just cringeworthy....how can you not laugh out loud at those?
Keep your little story to yourself and stop making out like you're some sort of Jesus firgure. Seriously...for all you losers that have been INSPIRED by this....let me show you how to do it:
1. Search this website for a post called "the idiot's guide to growth". Follow it. Follow it for longer if you want better girls than the the UGs and fatties that make up 75% of that video.
2. Get cool haircut and clothes and accessories.
3. Approach.
Please can I have legions of followers now?![]()
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.