"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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that dj dan transformation

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is that real? how in the hell did he transform like that, that is crazy... I was just looking through a thread and a guy posted that and I watched the video
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Yep it was real.

Anything is possible if you want change bad enough.
 

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Bonafide said:
is that real? how in the hell did he transform like that, that is crazy... I was just looking through a thread and a guy posted that and I watched the video
Yes, it's real.

He put in a lot of effort on the looks part.
 
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yeah i liked that video, i think hes banned now... mainly because of some of the stuff he did.

he now loks like a model but he is still *really* insecure i remember he made a thread about how he had some girl say to him that she was his slave. thats one thin hes gotta overcome
 

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Bonafide said:
is that real? how in the hell did he transform like that, that is crazy... I was just looking through a thread and a guy posted that and I watched the video

Hey Dan!

Haven't seen you online for awhile. How are you Brother?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fS4r2sOAXXo

Here's an update for you guys on the video. I added some more recent pics. As well as started my own site with an e-book detailing how I did it.

I've been spending the past 3 months typing away like a maniac. It's almost 120 pages. In terms of game, I've been dating a woman in her 30s for the past year and things have been going great with her. She treats me like a KING.
 

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Pretty good video man. Inspiring stuff.

I don't think you should write an E-book though. You should write a regular book, like a memoir about your transformation.

This site and community doesn't need another guru. What it needs is someone who is a real-life example.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Metaphysical said:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fS4r2sOAXXo

Here's an update for you guys on the video. I added some more recent pics. As well as started my own site with an e-book detailing how I did it.

I've been spending the past 3 months typing away like a maniac. It's almost 120 pages. In terms of game, I've been dating a woman in her 30s for the past year and things have been going great with her. She treats me like a KING.
Why would you date a woman in her 30's for the last year. Your young I believe your 22 or something like that. Any guy who dates a woman older than him is short changing himself. older woman should never be taken serious. Use them for a **** and a nut. The woman in your age range are much hotter, go after them.
 

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Anyone read the ebook yet?

I can't seem to find it. Very inspirings stuff on the video.
 

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I don't really see what's so amazing about his transformation? I think some of you guys are secretly gay and get off on this guy's look, but I don't think it's that amazing.

Firstly, He was pretty skinny and ripped to begin with. It's not like he had to rip tons of fat off his body in order to get definition. Bascially he added some muscle to a lean, scrawny frame and filled out.

Secondly, He had pretty bad acne, but it doesn't take discipline or effort to visit a dermatologist and get a prescription.

Thirdly, He grew his hair out and upgraded his wardrobe........

Where is this so inspiring? I mean sure, it took effort, but it's not like he was totally fat or ugly to begin with. And the women in his video, while they're not total dogs, aren't exactly supermodels either.

I congratulate him on his accomplishments, but show me a 350 pound guy who transforms himself into a ripped super-stud, then I'll be impressed.
 

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Looks is only a small part of the equation. The rest of the equation is the game on a mental, emotional and spiritual level. What you guys see is my success with women, but this has spiraled into other aspects of my life recently.

As for my girlfriend, she is an amazing woman, although older she has a personality most of you guys never imagine women could have. You don't really live until your girlfriend makes you dinner and for dessert you're sitting on an expensive leather couch with a cognac in one hand, a cigar in the other and your girlfriend giving you a bj. Let's not mention she paid for everything.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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This video always makes me laugh, as does you guys' responses. Yes, kudos to the guy for changing...but PLEASE get off his d.ick! His acne cleared up and he's put on some muscle. I started off with almost the exact same size body as this guy and I now have about 20lb more muscle than the current "DJ Dan"...am I gonna make a video...hell no!! The picture of him fully clothed in the doggystyle position with that minger (thats an UG to you Americans) and the skinny-boy-in-a-leather-jacket-with-long-hair pose are just cringeworthy....how can you not laugh out loud at those?

Keep your little story to yourself and stop making out like you're some sort of Jesus firgure. Seriously...for all you losers that have been INSPIRED by this....let me show you how to do it:

1. Search this website for a post called "the idiot's guide to growth". Follow it. Follow it for longer if you want better girls than the the UGs and fatties that make up 75% of that video.
2. Get cool haircut and clothes and accessories.
3. Approach.

Please can I have legions of followers now? :rolleyes:
 

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L777 said:
This video always makes me laugh, as does you guys' responses. Yes, kudos to the guy for changing...but PLEASE get off his d.ick! His acne cleared up and he's put on some muscle. I started off with almost the exact same size body as this guy and I now have about 20lb more muscle than the current "DJ Dan"...am I gonna make a video...hell no!! The picture of him fully clothed in the doggystyle position with that minger (thats an UG to you Americans) and the skinny-boy-in-a-leather-jacket-with-long-hair pose are just cringeworthy....how can you not laugh out loud at those?

Keep your little story to yourself and stop making out like you're some sort of Jesus firgure. Seriously...for all you losers that have been INSPIRED by this....let me show you how to do it:

1. Search this website for a post called "the idiot's guide to growth". Follow it. Follow it for longer if you want better girls than the the UGs and fatties that make up 75% of that video.
2. Get cool haircut and clothes and accessories.
3. Approach.

Please can I have legions of followers now? :rolleyes:
That post was full of hate. I think someones jealous. ;)
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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