Bonafide
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is that real? how in the hell did he transform like that, that is crazy... I was just looking through a thread and a guy posted that and I watched the video
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
that dj dan transformation
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
KontrollerX
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Yep it was real.
Anything is possible if you want change bad enough.
Anything is possible if you want change bad enough.
LostAndConfused
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yeah i liked that video, i think hes banned now... mainly because of some of the stuff he did.
he now loks like a model but he is still *really* insecure i remember he made a thread about how he had some girl say to him that she was his slave. thats one thin hes gotta overcome
he now loks like a model but he is still *really* insecure i remember he made a thread about how he had some girl say to him that she was his slave. thats one thin hes gotta overcome
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Bonafide said:
Hey Dan!
Haven't seen you online for awhile. How are you Brother?
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Metaphysical
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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fS4r2sOAXXo
Here's an update for you guys on the video. I added some more recent pics. As well as started my own site with an e-book detailing how I did it.
I've been spending the past 3 months typing away like a maniac. It's almost 120 pages. In terms of game, I've been dating a woman in her 30s for the past year and things have been going great with her. She treats me like a KING.
Here's an update for you guys on the video. I added some more recent pics. As well as started my own site with an e-book detailing how I did it.
I've been spending the past 3 months typing away like a maniac. It's almost 120 pages. In terms of game, I've been dating a woman in her 30s for the past year and things have been going great with her. She treats me like a KING.
MikeYikes122
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Pretty good video man. Inspiring stuff.
I don't think you should write an E-book though. You should write a regular book, like a memoir about your transformation.
This site and community doesn't need another guru. What it needs is someone who is a real-life example.
I don't think you should write an E-book though. You should write a regular book, like a memoir about your transformation.
This site and community doesn't need another guru. What it needs is someone who is a real-life example.
KontrollerX
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Dan's original video was a lot cooler as it featured this song.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=suogAdRCntg
If he was a pro wrestler this is definitely better entrance music for him as well.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=suogAdRCntg
If he was a pro wrestler this is definitely better entrance music for him as well.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Why would you date a woman in her 30's for the last year. Your young I believe your 22 or something like that. Any guy who dates a woman older than him is short changing himself. older woman should never be taken serious. Use them for a **** and a nut. The woman in your age range are much hotter, go after them.Metaphysical said:
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I don't really see what's so amazing about his transformation? I think some of you guys are secretly gay and get off on this guy's look, but I don't think it's that amazing.
Firstly, He was pretty skinny and ripped to begin with. It's not like he had to rip tons of fat off his body in order to get definition. Bascially he added some muscle to a lean, scrawny frame and filled out.
Secondly, He had pretty bad acne, but it doesn't take discipline or effort to visit a dermatologist and get a prescription.
Thirdly, He grew his hair out and upgraded his wardrobe........
Where is this so inspiring? I mean sure, it took effort, but it's not like he was totally fat or ugly to begin with. And the women in his video, while they're not total dogs, aren't exactly supermodels either.
I congratulate him on his accomplishments, but show me a 350 pound guy who transforms himself into a ripped super-stud, then I'll be impressed.
Firstly, He was pretty skinny and ripped to begin with. It's not like he had to rip tons of fat off his body in order to get definition. Bascially he added some muscle to a lean, scrawny frame and filled out.
Secondly, He had pretty bad acne, but it doesn't take discipline or effort to visit a dermatologist and get a prescription.
Thirdly, He grew his hair out and upgraded his wardrobe........
Where is this so inspiring? I mean sure, it took effort, but it's not like he was totally fat or ugly to begin with. And the women in his video, while they're not total dogs, aren't exactly supermodels either.
I congratulate him on his accomplishments, but show me a 350 pound guy who transforms himself into a ripped super-stud, then I'll be impressed.
Metaphysical
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Looks is only a small part of the equation. The rest of the equation is the game on a mental, emotional and spiritual level. What you guys see is my success with women, but this has spiraled into other aspects of my life recently.
As for my girlfriend, she is an amazing woman, although older she has a personality most of you guys never imagine women could have. You don't really live until your girlfriend makes you dinner and for dessert you're sitting on an expensive leather couch with a cognac in one hand, a cigar in the other and your girlfriend giving you a bj. Let's not mention she paid for everything.
As for my girlfriend, she is an amazing woman, although older she has a personality most of you guys never imagine women could have. You don't really live until your girlfriend makes you dinner and for dessert you're sitting on an expensive leather couch with a cognac in one hand, a cigar in the other and your girlfriend giving you a bj. Let's not mention she paid for everything.
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
L777
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Metaphysical
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i changed the song and re-edited the video, it's uploaded on my website in my linkDon_Phong said:
L777
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This video always makes me laugh, as does you guys' responses. Yes, kudos to the guy for changing...but PLEASE get off his d.ick! His acne cleared up and he's put on some muscle. I started off with almost the exact same size body as this guy and I now have about 20lb more muscle than the current "DJ Dan"...am I gonna make a video...hell no!! The picture of him fully clothed in the doggystyle position with that minger (thats an UG to you Americans) and the skinny-boy-in-a-leather-jacket-with-long-hair pose are just cringeworthy....how can you not laugh out loud at those?
Keep your little story to yourself and stop making out like you're some sort of Jesus firgure. Seriously...for all you losers that have been INSPIRED by this....let me show you how to do it:
1. Search this website for a post called "the idiot's guide to growth". Follow it. Follow it for longer if you want better girls than the the UGs and fatties that make up 75% of that video.
2. Get cool haircut and clothes and accessories.
3. Approach.
Please can I have legions of followers now?
Keep your little story to yourself and stop making out like you're some sort of Jesus firgure. Seriously...for all you losers that have been INSPIRED by this....let me show you how to do it:
1. Search this website for a post called "the idiot's guide to growth". Follow it. Follow it for longer if you want better girls than the the UGs and fatties that make up 75% of that video.
2. Get cool haircut and clothes and accessories.
3. Approach.
Please can I have legions of followers now?
That post was full of hate. I think someones jealous.L777 said:This video always makes me laugh, as does you guys' responses. Yes, kudos to the guy for changing...but PLEASE get off his d.ick! His acne cleared up and he's put on some muscle. I started off with almost the exact same size body as this guy and I now have about 20lb more muscle than the current "DJ Dan"...am I gonna make a video...hell no!! The picture of him fully clothed in the doggystyle position with that minger (thats an UG to you Americans) and the skinny-boy-in-a-leather-jacket-with-long-hair pose are just cringeworthy....how can you not laugh out loud at those?
Keep your little story to yourself and stop making out like you're some sort of Jesus firgure. Seriously...for all you losers that have been INSPIRED by this....let me show you how to do it:
1. Search this website for a post called "the idiot's guide to growth". Follow it. Follow it for longer if you want better girls than the the UGs and fatties that make up 75% of that video.
2. Get cool haircut and clothes and accessories.
3. Approach.
Please can I have legions of followers now?
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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