"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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that dj dan transformation

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is that real? how in the hell did he transform like that, that is crazy... I was just looking through a thread and a guy posted that and I watched the video
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Yep it was real.

Anything is possible if you want change bad enough.
 

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Bonafide said:
is that real? how in the hell did he transform like that, that is crazy... I was just looking through a thread and a guy posted that and I watched the video
Yes, it's real.

He put in a lot of effort on the looks part.
 
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yeah i liked that video, i think hes banned now... mainly because of some of the stuff he did.

he now loks like a model but he is still *really* insecure i remember he made a thread about how he had some girl say to him that she was his slave. thats one thin hes gotta overcome
 

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Bonafide said:
is that real? how in the hell did he transform like that, that is crazy... I was just looking through a thread and a guy posted that and I watched the video

Hey Dan!

Haven't seen you online for awhile. How are you Brother?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fS4r2sOAXXo

Here's an update for you guys on the video. I added some more recent pics. As well as started my own site with an e-book detailing how I did it.

I've been spending the past 3 months typing away like a maniac. It's almost 120 pages. In terms of game, I've been dating a woman in her 30s for the past year and things have been going great with her. She treats me like a KING.
 

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Pretty good video man. Inspiring stuff.

I don't think you should write an E-book though. You should write a regular book, like a memoir about your transformation.

This site and community doesn't need another guru. What it needs is someone who is a real-life example.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Metaphysical said:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fS4r2sOAXXo

Here's an update for you guys on the video. I added some more recent pics. As well as started my own site with an e-book detailing how I did it.

I've been spending the past 3 months typing away like a maniac. It's almost 120 pages. In terms of game, I've been dating a woman in her 30s for the past year and things have been going great with her. She treats me like a KING.
Why would you date a woman in her 30's for the last year. Your young I believe your 22 or something like that. Any guy who dates a woman older than him is short changing himself. older woman should never be taken serious. Use them for a **** and a nut. The woman in your age range are much hotter, go after them.
 

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Anyone read the ebook yet?

I can't seem to find it. Very inspirings stuff on the video.
 

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I don't really see what's so amazing about his transformation? I think some of you guys are secretly gay and get off on this guy's look, but I don't think it's that amazing.

Firstly, He was pretty skinny and ripped to begin with. It's not like he had to rip tons of fat off his body in order to get definition. Bascially he added some muscle to a lean, scrawny frame and filled out.

Secondly, He had pretty bad acne, but it doesn't take discipline or effort to visit a dermatologist and get a prescription.

Thirdly, He grew his hair out and upgraded his wardrobe........

Where is this so inspiring? I mean sure, it took effort, but it's not like he was totally fat or ugly to begin with. And the women in his video, while they're not total dogs, aren't exactly supermodels either.

I congratulate him on his accomplishments, but show me a 350 pound guy who transforms himself into a ripped super-stud, then I'll be impressed.
 

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Looks is only a small part of the equation. The rest of the equation is the game on a mental, emotional and spiritual level. What you guys see is my success with women, but this has spiraled into other aspects of my life recently.

As for my girlfriend, she is an amazing woman, although older she has a personality most of you guys never imagine women could have. You don't really live until your girlfriend makes you dinner and for dessert you're sitting on an expensive leather couch with a cognac in one hand, a cigar in the other and your girlfriend giving you a bj. Let's not mention she paid for everything.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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This video always makes me laugh, as does you guys' responses. Yes, kudos to the guy for changing...but PLEASE get off his d.ick! His acne cleared up and he's put on some muscle. I started off with almost the exact same size body as this guy and I now have about 20lb more muscle than the current "DJ Dan"...am I gonna make a video...hell no!! The picture of him fully clothed in the doggystyle position with that minger (thats an UG to you Americans) and the skinny-boy-in-a-leather-jacket-with-long-hair pose are just cringeworthy....how can you not laugh out loud at those?

Keep your little story to yourself and stop making out like you're some sort of Jesus firgure. Seriously...for all you losers that have been INSPIRED by this....let me show you how to do it:

1. Search this website for a post called "the idiot's guide to growth". Follow it. Follow it for longer if you want better girls than the the UGs and fatties that make up 75% of that video.
2. Get cool haircut and clothes and accessories.
3. Approach.

Please can I have legions of followers now? :rolleyes:
 

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L777 said:
This video always makes me laugh, as does you guys' responses. Yes, kudos to the guy for changing...but PLEASE get off his d.ick! His acne cleared up and he's put on some muscle. I started off with almost the exact same size body as this guy and I now have about 20lb more muscle than the current "DJ Dan"...am I gonna make a video...hell no!! The picture of him fully clothed in the doggystyle position with that minger (thats an UG to you Americans) and the skinny-boy-in-a-leather-jacket-with-long-hair pose are just cringeworthy....how can you not laugh out loud at those?

Keep your little story to yourself and stop making out like you're some sort of Jesus firgure. Seriously...for all you losers that have been INSPIRED by this....let me show you how to do it:

1. Search this website for a post called "the idiot's guide to growth". Follow it. Follow it for longer if you want better girls than the the UGs and fatties that make up 75% of that video.
2. Get cool haircut and clothes and accessories.
3. Approach.

Please can I have legions of followers now? :rolleyes:
That post was full of hate. I think someones jealous. ;)
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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