"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Well I think tonight marks the point when I finally start making my transition into a DJ.

Today I took this girl out for the second date and it was awesome. I ended up taking her to play mini-golf. When we were playing kino was exchanged alot and stuff like that. So after we finish playing, I ask her if she wanted to watch a movie and she said sure.

I take her to my place and pop in anchorman. We were laying on the couch and I iniate the kino. I ended up like kissing her neck and it was driving her crazy, she was getting goosebumps and all. Then, we end up full on making out which was quite awesome. I was trying to go for more but I figured not to push my luck too far. I'm definately hoping to get a homerun the next time I see her.

The most important thing is that I felt like everything was natural to me. I finally feel comfortable and confident when with a girl. Hopefully I will have something better to share soon.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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One guys HB8 is another brothers' HB3. It's all relative and has no point being asked. Fact is this brother should be commended for wiping the sleep from his eyes and having his other ball finally drop.

Kudos to you brother.:yes:
 

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Paintballguy said:
Well I think tonight marks the point when I finally start making my transition into a DJ.

Today I took this girl out for the second date and it was awesome. I ended up taking her to play mini-golf. When we were playing kino was exchanged alot and stuff like that. So after we finish playing, I ask her if she wanted to watch a movie and she said sure.

I take her to my place and pop in anchorman. We were laying on the couch and I iniate the kino. I ended up like kissing her neck and it was driving her crazy, she was getting goosebumps and all. Then, we end up full on making out which was quite awesome. I was trying to go for more but I figured not to push my luck too far. I'm definately hoping to get a homerun the next time I see her.

The most important thing is that I felt like everything was natural to me. I finally feel comfortable and confident when with a girl. Hopefully I will have something better to share soon.
Congrats but dont get too attached, next thing you know she is going to stab you in the heart.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Congrats on your success. Now dont stop, and continue to go for more like you plan. Now also remember that this can go on with multiple women at the same time,unless you are planning on trying to have a relationship with her. Now next time when you want to push for more,when making out,let her lay on top of you and take off her bra...you do that then you can basically, finger her,have her tongue your ballz,and fcuk her(99% of the time,every once awhile there are those who hold off till marriage).
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Great job, sir. I would only say that you should never really stop because you're worried about taking it "too far too soon" -- at least, not unless you want to.

I've found many more regrets from not doing something when I had the chance than stopping too soon for her sake. Additionally, the more that you do with her, the easier you have it later on because girls tend to get easily attached to anyone they have the sexual relations with!

If she stops you, you don't lose points and at least you tried. If she doesn't, then have it!
 

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Jester FPS said:
Take her to a social gathering, like a farmer's market or something. A place with lots of people, and have fun.

WOW thats so stupid....take her out drinking and then come back to ur place and this time, led the kissing and "goosebumps" lead to full out sex (read my gunwitch posts)
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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skip2mylou781 said:
WOW thats so stupid....take her out drinking and then come back to ur place and this time, led the kissing and "goosebumps" lead to full out sex (read my gunwitch posts)
I'm always down for drinking but the underage thing is a bit of a challenge. Parties are always an option but I never know about one till the last minute. I need something that is a solid choice.
 
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