"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Well I think tonight marks the point when I finally start making my transition into a DJ.

Today I took this girl out for the second date and it was awesome. I ended up taking her to play mini-golf. When we were playing kino was exchanged alot and stuff like that. So after we finish playing, I ask her if she wanted to watch a movie and she said sure.

I take her to my place and pop in anchorman. We were laying on the couch and I iniate the kino. I ended up like kissing her neck and it was driving her crazy, she was getting goosebumps and all. Then, we end up full on making out which was quite awesome. I was trying to go for more but I figured not to push my luck too far. I'm definately hoping to get a homerun the next time I see her.

The most important thing is that I felt like everything was natural to me. I finally feel comfortable and confident when with a girl. Hopefully I will have something better to share soon.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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One guys HB8 is another brothers' HB3. It's all relative and has no point being asked. Fact is this brother should be commended for wiping the sleep from his eyes and having his other ball finally drop.

Kudos to you brother.:yes:
 

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Paintballguy said:
Well I think tonight marks the point when I finally start making my transition into a DJ.

Today I took this girl out for the second date and it was awesome. I ended up taking her to play mini-golf. When we were playing kino was exchanged alot and stuff like that. So after we finish playing, I ask her if she wanted to watch a movie and she said sure.

I take her to my place and pop in anchorman. We were laying on the couch and I iniate the kino. I ended up like kissing her neck and it was driving her crazy, she was getting goosebumps and all. Then, we end up full on making out which was quite awesome. I was trying to go for more but I figured not to push my luck too far. I'm definately hoping to get a homerun the next time I see her.

The most important thing is that I felt like everything was natural to me. I finally feel comfortable and confident when with a girl. Hopefully I will have something better to share soon.
Congrats but dont get too attached, next thing you know she is going to stab you in the heart.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Congrats on your success. Now dont stop, and continue to go for more like you plan. Now also remember that this can go on with multiple women at the same time,unless you are planning on trying to have a relationship with her. Now next time when you want to push for more,when making out,let her lay on top of you and take off her bra...you do that then you can basically, finger her,have her tongue your ballz,and fcuk her(99% of the time,every once awhile there are those who hold off till marriage).
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Great job, sir. I would only say that you should never really stop because you're worried about taking it "too far too soon" -- at least, not unless you want to.

I've found many more regrets from not doing something when I had the chance than stopping too soon for her sake. Additionally, the more that you do with her, the easier you have it later on because girls tend to get easily attached to anyone they have the sexual relations with!

If she stops you, you don't lose points and at least you tried. If she doesn't, then have it!
 

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Jester FPS said:
Take her to a social gathering, like a farmer's market or something. A place with lots of people, and have fun.

WOW thats so stupid....take her out drinking and then come back to ur place and this time, led the kissing and "goosebumps" lead to full out sex (read my gunwitch posts)
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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skip2mylou781 said:
WOW thats so stupid....take her out drinking and then come back to ur place and this time, led the kissing and "goosebumps" lead to full out sex (read my gunwitch posts)
I'm always down for drinking but the underage thing is a bit of a challenge. Parties are always an option but I never know about one till the last minute. I need something that is a solid choice.
 
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