"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Well I think tonight marks the point when I finally start making my transition into a DJ.

Today I took this girl out for the second date and it was awesome. I ended up taking her to play mini-golf. When we were playing kino was exchanged alot and stuff like that. So after we finish playing, I ask her if she wanted to watch a movie and she said sure.

I take her to my place and pop in anchorman. We were laying on the couch and I iniate the kino. I ended up like kissing her neck and it was driving her crazy, she was getting goosebumps and all. Then, we end up full on making out which was quite awesome. I was trying to go for more but I figured not to push my luck too far. I'm definately hoping to get a homerun the next time I see her.

The most important thing is that I felt like everything was natural to me. I finally feel comfortable and confident when with a girl. Hopefully I will have something better to share soon.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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One guys HB8 is another brothers' HB3. It's all relative and has no point being asked. Fact is this brother should be commended for wiping the sleep from his eyes and having his other ball finally drop.

Kudos to you brother.:yes:
 
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Paintballguy said:
Well I think tonight marks the point when I finally start making my transition into a DJ.

Today I took this girl out for the second date and it was awesome. I ended up taking her to play mini-golf. When we were playing kino was exchanged alot and stuff like that. So after we finish playing, I ask her if she wanted to watch a movie and she said sure.

I take her to my place and pop in anchorman. We were laying on the couch and I iniate the kino. I ended up like kissing her neck and it was driving her crazy, she was getting goosebumps and all. Then, we end up full on making out which was quite awesome. I was trying to go for more but I figured not to push my luck too far. I'm definately hoping to get a homerun the next time I see her.

The most important thing is that I felt like everything was natural to me. I finally feel comfortable and confident when with a girl. Hopefully I will have something better to share soon.
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Congrats but dont get too attached, next thing you know she is going to stab you in the heart.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Congrats on your success. Now dont stop, and continue to go for more like you plan. Now also remember that this can go on with multiple women at the same time,unless you are planning on trying to have a relationship with her. Now next time when you want to push for more,when making out,let her lay on top of you and take off her bra...you do that then you can basically, finger her,have her tongue your ballz,and fcuk her(99% of the time,every once awhile there are those who hold off till marriage).
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Great job, sir. I would only say that you should never really stop because you're worried about taking it "too far too soon" -- at least, not unless you want to.

I've found many more regrets from not doing something when I had the chance than stopping too soon for her sake. Additionally, the more that you do with her, the easier you have it later on because girls tend to get easily attached to anyone they have the sexual relations with!

If she stops you, you don't lose points and at least you tried. If she doesn't, then have it!
 
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Jester FPS said:
Take her to a social gathering, like a farmer's market or something. A place with lots of people, and have fun.
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WOW thats so stupid....take her out drinking and then come back to ur place and this time, led the kissing and "goosebumps" lead to full out sex (read my gunwitch posts)
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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skip2mylou781 said:
WOW thats so stupid....take her out drinking and then come back to ur place and this time, led the kissing and "goosebumps" lead to full out sex (read my gunwitch posts)
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I'm always down for drinking but the underage thing is a bit of a challenge. Parties are always an option but I never know about one till the last minute. I need something that is a solid choice.
 
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