Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Well I think tonight marks the point when I finally start making my transition into a DJ.

Today I took this girl out for the second date and it was awesome. I ended up taking her to play mini-golf. When we were playing kino was exchanged alot and stuff like that. So after we finish playing, I ask her if she wanted to watch a movie and she said sure.

I take her to my place and pop in anchorman. We were laying on the couch and I iniate the kino. I ended up like kissing her neck and it was driving her crazy, she was getting goosebumps and all. Then, we end up full on making out which was quite awesome. I was trying to go for more but I figured not to push my luck too far. I'm definately hoping to get a homerun the next time I see her.

The most important thing is that I felt like everything was natural to me. I finally feel comfortable and confident when with a girl. Hopefully I will have something better to share soon.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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One guys HB8 is another brothers' HB3. It's all relative and has no point being asked. Fact is this brother should be commended for wiping the sleep from his eyes and having his other ball finally drop.

Kudos to you brother.:yes:
 

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Paintballguy said:
Well I think tonight marks the point when I finally start making my transition into a DJ.

Today I took this girl out for the second date and it was awesome. I ended up taking her to play mini-golf. When we were playing kino was exchanged alot and stuff like that. So after we finish playing, I ask her if she wanted to watch a movie and she said sure.

I take her to my place and pop in anchorman. We were laying on the couch and I iniate the kino. I ended up like kissing her neck and it was driving her crazy, she was getting goosebumps and all. Then, we end up full on making out which was quite awesome. I was trying to go for more but I figured not to push my luck too far. I'm definately hoping to get a homerun the next time I see her.

The most important thing is that I felt like everything was natural to me. I finally feel comfortable and confident when with a girl. Hopefully I will have something better to share soon.
Congrats but dont get too attached, next thing you know she is going to stab you in the heart.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Congrats on your success. Now dont stop, and continue to go for more like you plan. Now also remember that this can go on with multiple women at the same time,unless you are planning on trying to have a relationship with her. Now next time when you want to push for more,when making out,let her lay on top of you and take off her bra...you do that then you can basically, finger her,have her tongue your ballz,and fcuk her(99% of the time,every once awhile there are those who hold off till marriage).
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Great job, sir. I would only say that you should never really stop because you're worried about taking it "too far too soon" -- at least, not unless you want to.

I've found many more regrets from not doing something when I had the chance than stopping too soon for her sake. Additionally, the more that you do with her, the easier you have it later on because girls tend to get easily attached to anyone they have the sexual relations with!

If she stops you, you don't lose points and at least you tried. If she doesn't, then have it!
 

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Jester FPS said:
Take her to a social gathering, like a farmer's market or something. A place with lots of people, and have fun.

WOW thats so stupid....take her out drinking and then come back to ur place and this time, led the kissing and "goosebumps" lead to full out sex (read my gunwitch posts)
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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skip2mylou781 said:
WOW thats so stupid....take her out drinking and then come back to ur place and this time, led the kissing and "goosebumps" lead to full out sex (read my gunwitch posts)
I'm always down for drinking but the underage thing is a bit of a challenge. Parties are always an option but I never know about one till the last minute. I need something that is a solid choice.
 
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