"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Texting Tips?

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So we all know when you’re texting a girl you need to be light flirty and fun yadda yadda yadda. But when you’re first talking and working towards getting her on that first date how often should you be texting her? What should you talk about? I’ve heard you should just text about y’alls shared interests and just interesting/fun stuff. I just feel like being like “hey how was your day” tons of times when you don’t know her that well yet is kinda lame. So good openers would help too. Once you get a convo going I guess The Art of Conversation is just where you’d go from there. But any tips?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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1. Texting is for setting dates/logistics and occasional light flirting/banter
2. Don't have long conversations via text .. save that stuff for the date
3. The more you text back and forth before even having a 1st date with her, the less chance you will actually have a 1st date with her
4. Before you send a text, picture that everyone in the world can see what you've typed .. if you cringe at that thought, don't send it
5. Don't use gay smiley emojis
 
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