"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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sosumba

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So how can you be playfull about this when girl says something like:
"Have people told you that you look like [insert some celebrity name with same physical quality as you]?"
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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GreatHornedOwl

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That seems like an odd thing to say from a woman who is interested in you, but...

Regardless, I would respond with "No".
 

Barrister

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So how can you be playfull about this when girl says something like:
"Have people told you that you look like [insert some celebrity name with same physical quality as you]?"
Be playful back. Tell her she looks like whatever celebrity is with the celebrity she said you look like even if she looks nothing like them.

You can build rapport through texting so long as you don’t overdo it.
 

Xenom0rph

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Back in 2007, 50 Cent and Justin Timberlake said some truly prophetic words:

"...ayo, I'm tired of using technology, why don't you come sit on top of me?
............ayo, I'm tired of using technology, I need you in right front of me......."
 
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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