"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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sosumba

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So how can you be playfull about this when girl says something like:
"Have people told you that you look like [insert some celebrity name with same physical quality as you]?"
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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GreatHornedOwl

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That seems like an odd thing to say from a woman who is interested in you, but...

Regardless, I would respond with "No".
 

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So how can you be playfull about this when girl says something like:
"Have people told you that you look like [insert some celebrity name with same physical quality as you]?"
Be playful back. Tell her she looks like whatever celebrity is with the celebrity she said you look like even if she looks nothing like them.

You can build rapport through texting so long as you don’t overdo it.
 

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Back in 2007, 50 Cent and Justin Timberlake said some truly prophetic words:

"...ayo, I'm tired of using technology, why don't you come sit on top of me?
............ayo, I'm tired of using technology, I need you in right front of me......."
 
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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