"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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sosumba

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So how can you be playfull about this when girl says something like:
"Have people told you that you look like [insert some celebrity name with same physical quality as you]?"
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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GreatHornedOwl

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That seems like an odd thing to say from a woman who is interested in you, but...

Regardless, I would respond with "No".
 

Barrister

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So how can you be playfull about this when girl says something like:
"Have people told you that you look like [insert some celebrity name with same physical quality as you]?"
Be playful back. Tell her she looks like whatever celebrity is with the celebrity she said you look like even if she looks nothing like them.

You can build rapport through texting so long as you don’t overdo it.
 

Xenom0rph

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Back in 2007, 50 Cent and Justin Timberlake said some truly prophetic words:

"...ayo, I'm tired of using technology, why don't you come sit on top of me?
............ayo, I'm tired of using technology, I need you in right front of me......."
 
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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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