"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Ace_McGregor

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greene, if you want to read something on being a challenge read through Doc Love's book. Also, Robert Greene's "The Art of Seduction" is good also.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I never had a girl message me or call me to say that she is bored...
 

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Cod3r said:
Actually I take back my last post that was directed at you, I've been posting rather foul things lately, don't take offense... It's that time of the month :flowers:


-Cod3r

yeah man, theres more to this whole thing then texting back or waiting

this is all small potatoes if u ask me. if the girl ur hitting on doesnt wanna see u cuz u sent a text message 30 seconds too early or late for her tastes, its time to boost ur taste in women.

Its all about the tone you convey.

its like macromanaging or micromanaging. you can worry bout every little action, or the big picture.
 

Ace of Flames

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Ever stop and think, just for a sec, that we, as a community, analyze things a little TOO much?

Reading this thread, I just did.

Its a text message guys. If she likes you, it won't matter how fast or slow you answer, how much or little you type, or if you even respond at all. Worry more about how you present yourself when you're actually WITH her. That, in the grand scheme of things, has the greatest effect on her opinion of you.
 
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