"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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greene, if you want to read something on being a challenge read through Doc Love's book. Also, Robert Greene's "The Art of Seduction" is good also.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I never had a girl message me or call me to say that she is bored...
 
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Cod3r said:
Actually I take back my last post that was directed at you, I've been posting rather foul things lately, don't take offense... It's that time of the month :flowers:


-Cod3r
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yeah man, theres more to this whole thing then texting back or waiting

this is all small potatoes if u ask me. if the girl ur hitting on doesnt wanna see u cuz u sent a text message 30 seconds too early or late for her tastes, its time to boost ur taste in women.

Its all about the tone you convey.

its like macromanaging or micromanaging. you can worry bout every little action, or the big picture.
 
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Ever stop and think, just for a sec, that we, as a community, analyze things a little TOO much?

Reading this thread, I just did.

Its a text message guys. If she likes you, it won't matter how fast or slow you answer, how much or little you type, or if you even respond at all. Worry more about how you present yourself when you're actually WITH her. That, in the grand scheme of things, has the greatest effect on her opinion of you.
 
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