"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Text game: How do you be fun and playful when she disqualifies herself?

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One of my favorite techniques in game is using disqualification. But what if she is already disqualifying herself? Do you try to get her to qualify or what would you say to handle these sotuations?

Here's an example:
Her: I'm getting a facial treatment
You: Show me
Her: No make-up
You: Natural is better
Her: But maybe natural will make you scared. I'm ugly

So obviously she's not ugly but isn't being compliant when I tell her to show me a pic and says no make-up will make me scared. So you can't disqualify her but you shouldn't qualify her either because she didn't earn it. So how do you be fun and playful in a conversation like this? Some examples would be nice.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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The whole qualify/disqualify game through text doesn't work in the first place.

Just say "you're not ugly" and change the topic.

You make a woman qualify herself through ACTIONS. Things she does for you.

And she'll only do those things if she's interested in you.
 
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She's not being compliant....LMFAO

#nextset
 
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"Yeah I know...I've always been more attracted to your personality anyway"
 
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sazc said:
She's not being compliant....LMFAO

#nextset
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Why would you give up so easily? What good would nexting a girl for me be? l don't get too obsessed over a girl so I can keep many girls in my phone without getting attached. You only next if you are a beginner and you get too emotionally invested in a girl so you need to next her to be strong and move on.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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baurman said:
Why would you give up so easily? What good would nexting a girl for me be? l don't get too obsessed over a girl so I can keep many girls in my phone without getting attached. You only next if you are a beginner and you get too emotionally invested in a girl so you need to next her to be strong and move on.
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you said it yourself, you have a ton of girls in your phone. Why would you bother spinning your wheels on one girl that's not being compliant?

#nextset
 
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baurman said:
One of my favorite techniques in game is using disqualification. But what if she is already disqualifying herself? Do you try to get her to qualify or what would you say to handle these sotuations?

Here's an example:
Her: I'm getting a facial treatment
You: Show me
Her: No make-up
You: Natural is better
Her: But maybe natural will make you scared. I'm ugly

So obviously she's not ugly but isn't being compliant when I tell her to show me a pic and says no make-up will make me scared. So you can't disqualify her but you shouldn't qualify her either because she didn't earn it. So how do you be fun and playful in a conversation like this? Some examples would be nice.
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All this #nextset stuff is just living in denial. A defense mechanism so you can pretend you're still in charge.
 
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baurman said:
Why would you give up so easily? What good would nexting a girl for me be? l don't get too obsessed over a girl so I can keep many girls in my phone without getting attached. You only next if you are a beginner and you get too emotionally invested in a girl so you need to next her to be strong and move on.
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I wouldn’t next her over something this little. I’d go with what Marmel posted. It’s good because it’s like a push pull type thing. She will be like wait did he just agree I’m ugly? But then you’re complimenting at the same time with the personality bit.

Most guys would be like no no you’re beautiful yada yada and that will not make her puzzy wet lol
 
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"If I get too scared I´ll text you 911 or something so be ready to call an ambulance".
 
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It makes perfect sense that she wouldn't want to show you a picture of herself when she isn't at her best. IMO you are overthinking things and making too big a deal over this. Imagine if you tell a chick that you are 'paying bills', then she responds. "Let me see your checking account balance." Is that reasonable?

My advice is to use some common sense, and respond "Okay, I can't wait to see the results" Then make a date.
 
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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If you don't know what she actually looks like without make up, you shouldn't be too concerned. The most attractive women are better with minimal war paint.
 
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