"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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doctor1996

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Got her number. Shot her a text an hour ago.

Me: Hey ____, it's ____. What's up?

She responds: "hi"

I don't think I'm gonna bother. Opinions? And if this is the case, I'm getting fed up. Every girls number I got, they all pull the same bull**** with me and I'm fed up.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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she said hi, that's your door in to say whatever else you want , and leave it at that

"hey lets go out tonight to blah blah blah"

if she says yes, ur good

she says no, you move on and stop posting online about how you only got "hi" as a response
 

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Got her number. Shot her a text an hour ago.

Me: Hey ____, it's ____. What's up?

She responds: "hi"

I don't think I'm gonna bother. Opinions? And if this is the case, I'm getting fed up. Every girls number I got, they all pull the same bull**** with me and I'm fed up.
if you're clever and funny make a joke if not just say "how are ya"
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Tell her you're in the mood to eat some pu$$y and see what she says. Tell her you'll keep it a secret if she wants you to.
 

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Go on and ask her two more questions. If she does not ask one question back after you ask 3...drop it. Remember this for any kind of communication, text or live.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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derby1

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Already got rid of her number
after all the advice we keep giving you, but you know best......we can pick up your vibe from your messages your insecure when things dont go how you think they should go

you **** the pot if they dont get bk to you within a certain time,....when a man behaves this way women have radars for this bollocks and she will put you under the "needy, soon to be verbally abusive" category with the rest of them.....cool calm and collective you are not

wait till one of em really leads you on like a piece of string to a cat ...youll wish you listened to us then

Go on and ask her two more questions. If she does not ask one question back after you ask 3...drop it. Remember this for any kind of communication, text or live.
this is brilliant advice however lizardking theres more to it hes not quite telling the full story on his own behaviour ie give the woman chance to breathe so what if she takes a little to respond, etc if theyd had sex and dated and she took a day to respond then id agree with him but these women owe him nothing
 

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you **** the pot if they dont get bk to you within a certain time,....when a man behaves this way women have radars for this bollocks and she will put you under the "needy, soon to be verbally abusive" category with the rest of them.....cool calm and collective you are not
better too quick to get rid of a girl than too slow I'd say
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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marmel75

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So you basically reject yourself? Not sure what level of game you are at but you need to make some serious improvements.
 

Jetleg

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Weak texting skills doc.

"how are you" and even "hey" is the most boring thing you could text, honestly im surprised she even texted you back.

How about "lets grab something to eat"

Or even better, setting up a date before taking her number. Stop wasting your time.
 

devilkingx2

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Weak texting skills doc.

"how are you" and even "hey" is the most boring thing you could text, honestly im surprised she even texted you back.

How about "lets grab something to eat"
that's an equally bad text if you guys just met, he has to show her that she wants to go on a date with him before he asks (if they already know each other it doesn't matter)
 

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hes having a meltdown when they dont get back to him within hours, needs to drop the insecurities
yeah something is definitely off about OP here, but in a vacuum knowing that you should cut your losses is extremely good and valuable
 

Jetleg

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that's an equally bad text if you guys just met, he has to show her that she wants to go on a date with him before he asks (if they already know each other it doesn't matter)
If you did you work like you were supposed to, before taking her number, then its all good.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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