"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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doctor1996

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Got her number. Shot her a text an hour ago.

Me: Hey ____, it's ____. What's up?

She responds: "hi"

I don't think I'm gonna bother. Opinions? And if this is the case, I'm getting fed up. Every girls number I got, they all pull the same bull**** with me and I'm fed up.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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she said hi, that's your door in to say whatever else you want , and leave it at that

"hey lets go out tonight to blah blah blah"

if she says yes, ur good

she says no, you move on and stop posting online about how you only got "hi" as a response
 

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Got her number. Shot her a text an hour ago.

Me: Hey ____, it's ____. What's up?

She responds: "hi"

I don't think I'm gonna bother. Opinions? And if this is the case, I'm getting fed up. Every girls number I got, they all pull the same bull**** with me and I'm fed up.
if you're clever and funny make a joke if not just say "how are ya"
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Tell her you're in the mood to eat some pu$$y and see what she says. Tell her you'll keep it a secret if she wants you to.
 

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Go on and ask her two more questions. If she does not ask one question back after you ask 3...drop it. Remember this for any kind of communication, text or live.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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derby1

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Already got rid of her number
after all the advice we keep giving you, but you know best......we can pick up your vibe from your messages your insecure when things dont go how you think they should go

you **** the pot if they dont get bk to you within a certain time,....when a man behaves this way women have radars for this bollocks and she will put you under the "needy, soon to be verbally abusive" category with the rest of them.....cool calm and collective you are not

wait till one of em really leads you on like a piece of string to a cat ...youll wish you listened to us then

Go on and ask her two more questions. If she does not ask one question back after you ask 3...drop it. Remember this for any kind of communication, text or live.
this is brilliant advice however lizardking theres more to it hes not quite telling the full story on his own behaviour ie give the woman chance to breathe so what if she takes a little to respond, etc if theyd had sex and dated and she took a day to respond then id agree with him but these women owe him nothing
 

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you **** the pot if they dont get bk to you within a certain time,....when a man behaves this way women have radars for this bollocks and she will put you under the "needy, soon to be verbally abusive" category with the rest of them.....cool calm and collective you are not
better too quick to get rid of a girl than too slow I'd say
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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marmel75

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So you basically reject yourself? Not sure what level of game you are at but you need to make some serious improvements.
 

Jetleg

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Weak texting skills doc.

"how are you" and even "hey" is the most boring thing you could text, honestly im surprised she even texted you back.

How about "lets grab something to eat"

Or even better, setting up a date before taking her number. Stop wasting your time.
 

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Weak texting skills doc.

"how are you" and even "hey" is the most boring thing you could text, honestly im surprised she even texted you back.

How about "lets grab something to eat"
that's an equally bad text if you guys just met, he has to show her that she wants to go on a date with him before he asks (if they already know each other it doesn't matter)
 

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hes having a meltdown when they dont get back to him within hours, needs to drop the insecurities
yeah something is definitely off about OP here, but in a vacuum knowing that you should cut your losses is extremely good and valuable
 

Jetleg

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that's an equally bad text if you guys just met, he has to show her that she wants to go on a date with him before he asks (if they already know each other it doesn't matter)
If you did you work like you were supposed to, before taking her number, then its all good.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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