"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
**** test and how to pass them
- Thread starter rtrev64
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Young Juan
Senior Don Juan
An Fvck friend said, "I don't want to do this anymore." I said, "Fine. Good luck in your search for a boyfriend." She called me back wanting more d1ck less than 30 days later.
A chick I was dating said, "Either you stop dating/fvcking other women or we will not be dating anymore." She was my favorite of the bundle at the time. I said, "[Nope.]" She dated other guys and ultimately came back crawling months later unsolicited.
Never negotiate with terrorists. Don't accept ultimatums.
Young Juan said:
Now that's the funniest shivt I have read here for a long time.
You have two ace cards. As he mentioned, the will to walk away, and "never verbalizing your feelings. BEING A CHALLENGE."
Those are the only two rounds you have in the rifle. And it's a war out there. YOU HAVE NO OTHER ROUNDS in the chamber (unless you are filthy rich, have access to cocaine, or are a rock star).
God's speed.
Don Juanabbe
Master Don Juan
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
nightcrawler
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I think everyone in this forum takes things wayyyyyy to seriously
If she says, "Oh that waiter is so hot", you say "You should ask for his number. You never know, you might get lucky!"
Drives them mad.
The other sh!t test that I see alot is when she sees how far she can push you. She'll ask you to go to the bar for her, fetch something for her or do little favours. Trust me, if you do what she asks all the time, you'll soon be her b1tch. How I respond to this is "Fvck off, I'm not your slave" said in a jokey way or "if you're looking for a lapdog, go look somewhere else."
Basically, a lot of these tests are just to see if you are a worthy man. If you stick to what you've learned here, be cool and confident, respect yourself, you should fly through these tests naturally.
PapiChulo
Master Don Juan
nightcrawler said:
Yeah, but there are other more serious tests disguised as a casual teasing sh!t test. The humor works on those as well.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Her: Could you grab my bottle of water? *All sweet voiced*
Me: No. *Scoffing*
Her: Fine, I'll get it myself. *Annoyed*
Me: Well done, just like an adult! *Sarcastic*
That's a fairly straight forward test. The ultimate test is to see if she can bend your integrity. If you ever give up your morals, ethics, integrity to a woman, you've lost the game with her but more importantly with yourself. I ALMOST made this mistake. Only way to respond is to walk away.
If you have some specific examples of **** tests you've faced, we could give you some ****y/funny replies..
GS750
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her: I'm home, the tow guy was kinda cute ***obvious sh1t test***
me: You get the digits?
her: Yeah we have a date planned
me: order the lobster
Not another word about it from her. I've got a wisea** answer for everything.
old_skoolr
Master Don Juan
GS750 said:
Id even go so far and ask her if the waiter has a hot sister, she could hook you up with since your not seeing anyone.
Atom Smasher
Master Don Juan
Think in terms of defusing and reversing them.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.