"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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theNEWDJ

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I told this girl that I hooked up with to to call me when i saw her at school, and she didnt haha, then i saw her again 2 days later and told her to call me hahaha

anyway do u think its good to tell a girl to call u or is that for the dude to do?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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kev me723

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most girls wont unless you are going out or they're really into you, and you should prob. give a specific time to call you no matter what. they're not reliable
 

AC/DC

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Tell her you'll give her a call "later". Call her like 4 days later juss to say hi, ask how her day was, maybe share what you did, and be nice.
 

j8snx1

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Yeah I'll agree with AC/DC with this one.

I tried telling the girl to call me (not after a #close, but with a girl I knew for a little bit) but no luck. So I guess if you tell the girl to call you, you're sort of gambling there. Depends on her IL for you I bet.
 

DJ4Real

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Most girls are flakes. Even if a girl likes you; she still has potential to flake out on you. What you should do is get her number and tell her that, "I'll call you sometime." After you do that, wait a few day and then call her.

The reasons why DJ's wait a few days:

1. It creates mystery.

2. It shows that you have a life.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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