"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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theNEWDJ

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I told this girl that I hooked up with to to call me when i saw her at school, and she didnt haha, then i saw her again 2 days later and told her to call me hahaha

anyway do u think its good to tell a girl to call u or is that for the dude to do?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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most girls wont unless you are going out or they're really into you, and you should prob. give a specific time to call you no matter what. they're not reliable
 
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Tell her you'll give her a call "later". Call her like 4 days later juss to say hi, ask how her day was, maybe share what you did, and be nice.
 
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Yeah I'll agree with AC/DC with this one.

I tried telling the girl to call me (not after a #close, but with a girl I knew for a little bit) but no luck. So I guess if you tell the girl to call you, you're sort of gambling there. Depends on her IL for you I bet.
 
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Most girls are flakes. Even if a girl likes you; she still has potential to flake out on you. What you should do is get her number and tell her that, "I'll call you sometime." After you do that, wait a few day and then call her.

The reasons why DJ's wait a few days:

1. It creates mystery.

2. It shows that you have a life.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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