"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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theNEWDJ

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I told this girl that I hooked up with to to call me when i saw her at school, and she didnt haha, then i saw her again 2 days later and told her to call me hahaha

anyway do u think its good to tell a girl to call u or is that for the dude to do?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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most girls wont unless you are going out or they're really into you, and you should prob. give a specific time to call you no matter what. they're not reliable
 
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Tell her you'll give her a call "later". Call her like 4 days later juss to say hi, ask how her day was, maybe share what you did, and be nice.
 
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Yeah I'll agree with AC/DC with this one.

I tried telling the girl to call me (not after a #close, but with a girl I knew for a little bit) but no luck. So I guess if you tell the girl to call you, you're sort of gambling there. Depends on her IL for you I bet.
 
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Most girls are flakes. Even if a girl likes you; she still has potential to flake out on you. What you should do is get her number and tell her that, "I'll call you sometime." After you do that, wait a few day and then call her.

The reasons why DJ's wait a few days:

1. It creates mystery.

2. It shows that you have a life.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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